Another month...

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Registered: 12-03-2007
Another month...
Wed, 12-29-2010 - 1:19am

This sucks.

I'm not sure what to do this month. Not trying/not preventing seems to be the trend here these days. But maybe we'll really really really try again this month. It's been a couple months since we did that. Maybe I'll actually make an appointment with my midwives to see what else I could/should be doing? It's so much hassle to find a time to make an appointment when DH has all sorts of crazy going on, on top of our already crazy child's scheduled stuff! I'm trying to stay positive, but this weekend I got to hold my cousin's newborn baby (10 days old)... And it was incredible, and really frustrating. They totally didn't plan that baby... Not that it makes her any less loved, but still. When she was conceived we were trying to conceive. Blah. Whatever. Oh and thanks FF for giving me a free trial of pro on CD1. Lame.

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Registered: 06-01-2004
Wed, 12-29-2010 - 2:49am
I am soooooo sorry for your disappointment again this month. I know your heartbreak very well my friend and it just sucks.
I vote you try really hard again for another cycle and see where that gets you, and I also think you should be as proactive as you can be - maybe your midwives have something helpful to bring to the table.
Hugs to you - I hope you feel better soon, Jasmine
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Registered: 08-11-2006
Thu, 12-30-2010 - 10:32pm

What a bummer : ( I'm sorry your feeling down..

I say you try real hard this month. Thats what we are going to do! We are not to far off cycles either. I'm going all out this month, OPK, up the BD time,