dropping out

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Mon, 09-20-2010 - 12:59pm

So, it's been 15 unsuccessful cycles for me. I'm getting more and more stressed over it each time. I've been doing a lot of thinking, and a bit of talking with DH, and I am

 

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In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 1:37pm

Sunday,



I completely understand your decision!

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In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 3:03pm

Oh, Sunday. I'm sorry this has been so hard.....I know you didn't come to this decision lightly. I hope you can find a sense of peace about all of this. And I still have hope that you will get your bfp.....

I have been thinking about this a lot lately. How do you know when it's time to give up? I know it's an individual choice that we have to make.....I guess when you get to the point when you're ready, then it's time. When the desire to get off the roller coaster outweighs the desire to stay on.....

I know this is a decision I will probably have to face too......I'm not brave or strong enough to do it yet. A few unsuccessful medicated cycles may just push me over the edge, too.

I wish you peace and happiness with whatever God has in store for you. Please keep in touch with us....I know I've already been missing you this last month and had a feeling you might be heading this direction...but I hope you'll check in.

God Bless,



Dee -- Homeschooling mom of 6 -- Forty-four and praying for 1 more!



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In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 3:18pm

Sunday-

Karen Lynn and Dee have already spoken so eloquently that I'm not sure there is anything I can add, but to also let you know that I second all their thoughts.

You are a most amazing dedicated mommy to your little one... and while I will hold out hope that there will be another in your future, should that not be in the cards I wish you peace.

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts-
L

-L



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Registered: 05-04-2008
In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 4:13pm

Hello Sunday :) We have and will miss you in your departure but of course, fully understand where you are at in this journey. I myself came very close many times - and it was very clear to in my mind when I had pretty much had enough.

I wish for you nothing but happiness and joy - and peace with where you are at in life. I do also wish you a surprise one of these months soon, but know that it is best to try and free yourself of all these thoughts for now and live in the moment.

You have been such a blessing to our board - helpful, cheerful, friendly, informative, and a really good friend to us all.

I do hope you stop by and post updates once in awhile as it will seem kind of empty around here without you.

Big hugs and love,
Jasmine

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Registered: 12-14-2008
In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 5:35pm

it will seem kind of empty around here without you.>>>>>

Copy that. Best wishes again.....



Dee -- Homeschooling mom of 6 -- Forty-four and praying for 1 more!



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Registered: 05-20-2010
In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 8:15pm
{{Hugs}} dear.....

Jessica



momma to 5 lil ones 9 and under, 2 girls and 3 boys, wife to a loving husband

Jessica


momma to 5 lil ones 9 and under, 2 girls and 3 boys, wife to a loving husband for 8 years
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In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 8:40pm

I understand. I've been there. It was actually very freeing when I stopped TTC #2 in July 2006 after 23 months. I had been trying to let go and eventually was able to stop thinking about TTC and just focus on my DS and life. It was nice!

Of course then I got pregnant the next month!





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Registered: 08-10-2010
In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 9:48pm
Sunday, I really appreciate all the help you've given me in the short time I've been on this board.

 


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Registered: 08-17-2010
In reply to: rnmom08
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 10:34pm

Sunday, I am thinking about you and sending lots of





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In reply to: rnmom08
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 10:46am

Sunday,



Just a note of support for your difficult decision.


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