Feeling a bit deflated....already!!

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Registered: 10-11-2011
Feeling a bit deflated....already!!
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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 1:04am

Just need a bit of a whinge to some ladies who understand!

DS (19 months) is feeding

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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 1:37am
I had very much the same "Aw man I gotta still wait!" after I O'd at 18 months AF showed and then wham I was back to waiting and twiddling my thumbs. That first cycle I think we wound up Oing on CD 35 or something... Having to wait again was a let down. We tried to just focus on the positive... things were moving in the right direction and enjoying the now.

Things are going to be a little wacky for awhile... at the same time... you're totally going in the right direction!
Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 11:50am

I tend to have long irregular cycles regardless of BFing so I feel your pain. It is frustrating to get AF and then wait--and wait and wait and wait--for O to come. Don't get discouraged though. I conceived DD

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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 8:08pm

Thanks so much ladies - this is just what I needed to hear :)

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Sun, 12-18-2011 - 1:22am
I will chime in and second what the other ladies said! Don't give up and don't be down......you have one AF down and that is wonderful news.....your body is just gearing up and it will regulate soon. I do know that waiting for O to show is so darn frustrating and sometimes feels more stressful then the 2ww - so frustrating when it is out of our control.
Hope you see some O action again very soon. Until then just remember that you are on your way to a BFP - it will just a take a bit of time and in the grand scheme of it all - it feels like forever but it really isn't ....enjoy your holiday time with your little one ....the New Year is sure to bring new joys :)
Hugs, Jasmine
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Registered: 06-02-2010
Sun, 12-18-2011 - 1:06pm
I too conceived our 1st and now our 3rd on a very long cycle! 3rd was on CD 40!

Best of luck!
Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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Mon, 12-19-2011 - 8:16am

I am so glad you posted this.

Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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Mon, 12-19-2011 - 11:21am
just keep watching for EWCM - assume nothing! i always tell myself im in for the long haul and try enjoy everyday as it is but keep a look out for your fertile signs, particulary ewcm and if you spot it then DTD everyday until you can confirm O