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Registered: 05-04-2008
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 3:14pm

Please don't take this the wrong way but I am wondering if you and DH are BD'ing too much during O time and not giving his swimmers time to regroup before doing it again. I know through my time at the fertility clinic and visits to the urologist (and knowing that DH's count is normal) that we should give 24 hours or so to let the sperm regenerate and get good strong swimmer in there. It was just a thought as I look at your chart - but um, wow, I am in awe of you and your stamina!!!!!!

Hopefully this question is not valid and you see a BFP in a few days.

Hugs, Jasmine

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Registered: 10-26-2007
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 5:25pm


I have considered that - however, when I got pg with DD, we BDed even more (a lot) than that! Plus, half the time it's him who wants to anyway nowadays (just don't have the energy I used to). I guess we'll see what happens in the next few days. If no BFP, I think it's something to consider.

Thanks :) and thanks so much for your reply in my other thread - I felt much better after I read it and I would like to write you back but I've been so busy or tired, I can never get online but for a minute. So I'm gonna try! I hate for people to write me and not get answers, even short ones.

Sophia is almost 21 months and you said you got preggo with a 22 month old, so it could happen! If not, probably on to the RE.


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Registered: 12-05-2000
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 10:22pm

I just wanted to add a thought and a question, because I find it amazing that you DTD as often as you do and things aren't rolling!

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