NEW HERE & LOTS OF ????'S :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2003
NEW HERE & LOTS OF ????'S :)
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 11:08am
Hi!! I am totally new to this board and filled with questions! I have 2 DD's. A 4.5 year old and a 10 month old. I am currently breastfeeding my 10 month old exclusively. She doesn't take bottles or pacifiers and doesn't eat a lot of table food. Almost 40 days ago I thought AF returned, however by reading "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" I think I may have not had AF. For the past two weeks I have had TONS of Gooey, Stringy, Yellow, Clear CM, just like last time, with some cramping, BUT NOTHING. Cervix is rather low and fairly closed. (After giving birth, I'm not sure how closed is closed. My DH & I want a number 3 soon, but would also like to use the Shettles method to attempt for a boy.

I could really use some guidance as to what is going on. I would like to start charting, but I don't know when to start since nothing is happening. Can Anyone Relate? Can anyone get me off to the right start as to what I should be doing and what may be going on? I really would appreciate it.

Thank You All So Much In Advance. I have asked friends for guidance, but none can help.


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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 6:25pm

I don't really have any advice, but am going through the exact same thing!