Knew it was too good to be true

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Knew it was too good to be true
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Sat, 04-02-2011 - 8:42am

Hi everyone. My update isn't one of good news. Huge temp drop this morning and some spotting. Starting to cramp pretty bad, so I know what's in store for me this weekend.

Dr. never called with my betas but that's okay because I knew in my heart this one wasn't going to work.

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Sat, 04-02-2011 - 2:17pm

Oh Vickie, I am so sorry.

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Sat, 04-02-2011 - 2:37pm
Oh I am so sorry to read this. Know that I shed tears for me and you both and I wish for the pain and disappointment to pass quickly and for us both to find contentment in our lives despite the losses. - Sharon



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Sat, 04-02-2011 - 4:23pm
Oh Vickie, my heart is breaking for you, sweetie. I so much didn't want to see this post. :(

Please don't give up.....you are getting pg....that's a good sign. Like me, it just might take a few times to get that golden egg. I know how hard it is to push forward though and have that chance of m/c ing again. It's so hard and scary. But you need to ask yourself if the desire is stronger than the fear (maybe not right now, in the throes of a m/c, but later)....and decide from there.

I'm so, so sorry. I have faith that our babies are up in heaven interceding on our behalf and wouldn't us to be sad. After all, they never have to know any pain.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}, sweetie.
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Sat, 04-02-2011 - 10:37pm
Ohhhhh Vickie. Dangit. I am so very sorry to read this. You have always been such a cheerleader for everyone else. I truly believe good things will happen for you. This wasn't the time, but I believe you will get your baby. I don't know if you remember Mattie's story or not, but she and her hubby got preggers with donor embryos. It was amazingly less than DE or IVF or any of that stuff. I believe it cost her around $4K out of pocket, and that included travel. I have an email she sent me with the details. I'd be glad to forward it on to you. Krista did basically the same thing. Hugs to you, Vickie. Some things in this life are NOT fair.

:-) Brandy, 42 yrs. old


Mom of a fifteen n month old precious little boy, conceived in Aug. 08 on our second IUI attempt (C

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Sun, 04-03-2011 - 3:35am

I'm so so sorry. Life just seems so unfair sometimes. I to felt there was something wrong before my m/c...something just didn't feel right. But even though you feel there is something wrong it doesn't make it any easier when it happens does it? No words can make things better right now. I just wanted you to know that

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Sun, 04-03-2011 - 11:18pm

Vickie I am so very very sorry, it is so damn unfair and I know right now the pain is so great you don't want to even think of trying again, just take care of yourself and give it time, for your dh too. BIG HUG........

 
 
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Mon, 04-04-2011 - 2:55pm

I'm so sorry Vickie. (( Big Hugs)).

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Tue, 04-05-2011 - 8:15am

Oh Vickie, My heart aches for you......I was so upset when I read your post this am...Prayers going up for you and Dh......My thoughts are with you sending <<<<>>>>>>> and <<<<>>>>>.............Chris

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Tue, 04-05-2011 - 3:23pm
Big (((HUGS))) Vickie, I'm so, so sorry :(

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Wed, 04-06-2011 - 2:56pm

Hi everyone. I so wish

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