Pregnancy lost

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Registered: 01-25-2004
Pregnancy lost
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Tue, 05-20-2008 - 6:19pm

Hi ladies- Just want to let you all know I did indeed have a miscarriage. Saw OB today and he confirmed, and I am now cramping and passing some pretty good clots. (sorry if tmi) I really would rather it happen at home than have to go in and have a D&C. I am really sad and feel like this really was my last chance. I really wish I knew what Gods plan is for me, I keep praying for a baby, and now have lost 3 in 4 years. I think I need to be done with the dream of another. I am so thankful for the children that I have, I only wish I could shake this NEED for one more. I guess I am preaching to the choir here, you all know the feeling of this huge disappointment.
Thank you all so much for being here. I will keep in touch, and wait for all your +++++PPT's!

Julie




Edited 5/20/2008 8:47 pm ET by pdxjulie

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2008
In reply to: pdxjulie
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 6:39pm

Oh Julie, I'm so sorry to hear your news.

     Leeann   


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: pdxjulie
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 7:51pm

Julie,


I am so sorry.

Carol, mom to 7

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-04-2007
In reply to: pdxjulie
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 8:08pm

I'm so saddened to hear of your news, Julie.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2007
In reply to: pdxjulie
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 9:51pm

Im so sorry for you loss

KIM

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Registered: 04-05-2003
In reply to: pdxjulie
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 10:10pm

Julie -


I think I know how you are feeling right now - I was just there two weeks ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-21-2005
In reply to: pdxjulie
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 10:17pm

Julie,


I hope it helps to know that we all share in your sorrow.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2005
In reply to: pdxjulie
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:06am

I am sorry for your loss, Julie.


Will be thinking about you and sending some hugs.


Krista

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Registered: 12-17-2007
In reply to: pdxjulie
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 10:21am

Oh Julie, I am so sorry!

I do completely understand your thoughts on this. We at the Board all try so hard to get pregnant, and then when we do - it is by no means certain that we will have the baby. So much is up in the air for so many weeks... it is very emotionally wearying. But before you make any final decisions, just give yourself time to heal emotionally and physically. Dispair is no place to be making plans.

I wish you could feel the great big cyber hug I have for you. I hope that you are feeling better soon and that you are spared any complications or other stuff like that.

Again, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please stay with us so we can support you through this crisis.

Libby

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2007
In reply to: pdxjulie
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 11:20am

Julie,


I am sorry to hear about your M/C.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2007
In reply to: pdxjulie
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 11:23am

Susan L.

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