Sad News

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Tue, 02-02-2010 - 8:55am

Hi ladies,


 

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Registered: 08-12-2008
In reply to: satita
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 11:29am
I'm really sorry to hear about this :( I hope that you can find some peace in this and make the decision whether or not to try again.
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Registered: 01-30-2010
In reply to: satita
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 12:22pm

Oh, I am so sorry to hear of your news:(

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Registered: 10-20-2009
In reply to: satita
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 12:58pm

Rosario:


I'm so sorry. (((Hugs))) I agree with your DH and your doctor - at least now you know you can get pregnant!

Susan L.



Robert Edward Xavier Lin - Born July 31, 2010 at 5:56AM, 6 pounds 4 ounces and 19 inches long. He spent 2 weeks in the NICU but he's doing great now!
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Registered: 12-06-2008
In reply to: satita
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 3:14pm

Rosario,


I am so sorry for your loss.

Laurie


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Registered: 10-19-2004
In reply to: satita
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 5:53pm
Rosario, I am so sorry for your loss. Of course you need to process this first. I have also been told that despite my losses the fact I became pg so much made my chances of having a baby higher. The m/c rate at 40+ is much higher. But it doesn't mean the next one won't stick.
- Jenna, 41, DH 38 TTC since September '06 with MFI. 3 failed unmedicated IUI's with DH sperm, 1 failed IUI with injects with DH sperm, IVF #1 BFN, FET BFP but M/c week 5, IVF#2 BFP m/c week 7, IUI with injects and donor sperm: probable chemical pg. 1 failed unmedicated DS/IUI. Started BCP's 7/30 for IVF #3, ER 9/10, ET 9/15, Beta 9/24 results 9/25. BFP, Twins. Lost 1st twin at 9-10 weeks, lost second twin at 16 weeks 12/17/08. Attempted IUI #4 converted to DS/DH IUI April 09 at my request, BFP and M/c. IVF #4 June 09 BFN. DS-IUI w/injects 7/6/09, BFN. Hysteroscopic myomectomy to remove fibroid 7/29/09.Unmedicated DS-IUI 9/09, BFN. DS-IUI with injects, 10/09, BFP and M/C. DH/DS-IUI with injects and HGH, 12/6. BFP! Betas: 12dpo 12/18 58, 14 dpo 12/20 157, 16dpo 12/22 379, 22 dpo 12/28 4,002


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- Jenna
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Registered: 07-10-2008
In reply to: satita
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 10:28pm
I am so sorry you are having to go through this.

Jessica

Me - 44, DH-47     

 

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Registered: 05-31-2004
In reply to: satita
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 12:22am
Oh Rosario I am so terribly sorry. I am so glad you went to your old doctor, knowing that things are not quite right helps you prepare just a little bit for that horrible result. It does not lessen the pain any, just prepares you for it. After trying for a baby for 7 years back in my 20's I was over the moon to finally have a bfp! However, after a small amount of spotting and a smaller sac than it should have been, I went for my second u/s to find there was nothing there at all anymore. I was devastated. I finally started to bleed the next week. It took a bit of time, but I got past it. Despite the loss, I had a lot more hope that I could actually get pregnant than I had ever had before, it was suddenly a very real possibility for me! At that time I was on strong fertility meds to make me ovulate, and it took two more rounds and I finally conceived my now 14 yr old son! I know that I had an advantage of being younger then, but maybe it will happen for you too. In the meantime, take the time you need to grieve, don't let others rush you but don't let yourself get stuck there either. ((((((Hugs))))))

Michelle


Loving Mom to three

Michelle


Loving Mom to three rambunctious 

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Registered: 10-12-2007
In reply to: satita
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 8:36am

Ladies,


Thank you all for your kind words. I'm feeling better this morning. I'm so glad I went to my old doctor because if I hadn't, then the bleeding would have caught me by surprise, at home, at 11PM with no way of finding answers or talking to the doctor till the next morning, and it would have been so much worse. This way I was somewhat prepared for it. I'm surprised at myself, I'm processing this quite fast. I'm actually looking forward to my appointment on Friday to talk to my doctor about my options now. Is that crazy? He mentioned Clomid, but I had a horrible experience with side effects from it. I wonder what else I could take. He said something about a new drug that does the same thing as Clomid, sort of. Well, we'll see....


Thanks again for all of your support!


Rosario

 

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Registered: 02-15-2007
In reply to: satita
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 4:12pm

Rosario,
I responded to another post before I got a chance to see this message.

Just wanted to know, I'm thinking of you and we're all here for you to support you in all your journeys.

Bless you,
wannabmommy07

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Registered: 10-12-2007
In reply to: satita
Thu, 02-04-2010 - 4:29pm

Thanks W,

 

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