Went for ultrasound....no heartbeat

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Went for ultrasound....no heartbeat
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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 12:16pm

Hi All,


I posted here a few weeks ago with a BFP.

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Registered: 06-26-2009
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 12:45pm

Words can not express how sorry I am to hear of your news.

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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 1:49pm
(((HUGS))) Carolina, I'm so very sorry for you.

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Registered: 05-16-2007
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 2:31pm

Thank you Kristi and Melissa for your kind words and support.

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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 2:47pm
Oh no, I am so sorry. Don't worry about sounding negative, you are in the midst of heartache. This happens even to much younger women, so don't start blaming yourself for having "old" eggs, these things just happen regardless of age. I am glad to hear you will be trying again, I know it can be so hard. Please keep us posted on your journey, and hopefully you will be posting another bfp very soon. ((((Hugs))))

Michelle


Loving Mom to three

Michelle


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Registered: 10-08-2009
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 4:06pm

I am so sorry for your loss.

Jo
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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 4:24pm
Im soo sorry for your loss, on the bright side if there was nothing in the sac it sounds like a blighted ovum and there was not an embryo why is this better??? Because it means that you have egss you just have to catch the golden one!! Hugs and hang in there. Take time to for yourself and jump on the TTC train again you will eventully catch the golden egg!
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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 4:57pm

Oh Carolina, I am sooo sorry!!


Thinking of you


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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 6:47pm
I am so sorry for your loss.

 

 

Pam 42 DH 48  - Hoping to give our toddler a sibling to grow up with

 

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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 8:10pm

Hi Carolina,

I am soooo sorry to read your post!! It brought back a lot of emotion for me. I went thru the same situation in Aug; got BFP in July, went in for 1st u/s and all they could see was an empty sac. I was devastated. I too had a D&C. Here's sending you HUGS!! I am feeling a bit down right now. System seem to bounce back fairly quickly and went thru my 1st real cycle since D&C. "O" was a little off though I had high hopes of getting a BFP. But no, AF decided to show her ugly face a couple of days late. BUT, I am still hopeful and figured that maybe my body needed to heal just a little more to get ready for the next BFP. I still have difficult days and doubts. Give yourself time and space to grieve (can be hard b/c I felt embarrassed/ashamed/sad/angry, etc in addition to feeling like I had to keep quiet about the lost).

I am here if you need to vent or just be heard or for comfort.


Alex



Me - 41 DH - 48


TTC since March '09 (#1 for me, #2 for DH)
BFP 7/09 - M/C 8/09



Alex

Me 42,

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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 8:55pm

Oh no!

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