Another heartbreak 8(

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Another heartbreak 8(
Sun, 02-12-2012 - 3:33pm
Ladies - I went for my 1st ultrasound on Friday and eventhough everything seemed to look ok and was given how many weeks along (10w1d) , there was no longer a heartbeat. Doctor said it had only been a day or two since it stopped. Is just surreal right now, I opted to wait a couple of days and see if my body does what it was supposed to. If not I go back on Wednesday.

They are having labs to check hcg levels had one on Friday afternoon and having one tomorrow. The case mgr recommended to have genetic testing since it looks like this will b my 2nd mc eventhough this pregnancy was no longer. Should we?? We have 2 older children so doesnt mean there wasnt a problem
Before but now there is???? We might pursue that testing before we decide if we want to continue in our TTC journey.

So this weekend I've had bouts of crying sessions, angry cuz other women who don't take good care of themselves and not really want more kids are able
to have a baby. We were really hoping that we would have a baby by summer 8(

Take care ladies..

TTC - June 2009
Me-41, DH-47

DD-19, DS-14, and a Sweet Baby w/ angel wings

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Tue, 02-14-2012 - 11:59am

So sorry for your loss.

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Mon, 02-13-2012 - 5:09pm

I'm so very sorry Yvonne, sending you lots of (((HUGS))).

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Mon, 02-13-2012 - 2:39pm

Yvonne, my heart is breaking for you right now. I am so sorry. There are no words to make this better but please know

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Mon, 02-13-2012 - 11:24am

I'm so sorry for your loss. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} I know all too well how horribly painful this is, as I had to endure 3 losses over the past 2 years. I got the babies tested with the past 2 losses. The 1st one was chromosomally normal, the 2nd had trisomy 22. I would say, if it gives you closure, then by all means, go ahead and have testing done. I know it helped me feel proactive knowing I was doing something...I also had some testing done on me too. I had 5 kids before and so it was so difficult thinking that I couldn't carry another healthy baby. But, I'm 35 weeks pg with a healthy, active baby girl you never

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Sun, 02-12-2012 - 4:58pm


I am so sorry for your lose. My heart is breaking for you. Life is so unfair.


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Sun, 02-12-2012 - 4:47pm

oh, Yvonne.....I am soooooo sorry!!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend