Dec. 2WW

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Dec. 2WW
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Thu, 12-01-2011 - 9:25am

Are you in the 2ww? Does time go so slow while waiting to test? Do you have any symptoms that are unusual for you? Feel free to share daily symptoms, rant about the wait, or

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Registered: 02-12-2010
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Tue, 12-27-2011 - 11:10pm

8dpo nothing earth shattering going on.

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Registered: 02-12-2010
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Fri, 12-23-2011 - 8:58am

4dpo woo hoo! So FF was a bit out of sorts with my wake times of late, but it seems this morning's temp gave me a CL and put me right where I thought I would be for O date. CD 14 - very happy about that. FF was still considering CD12 slightly too early though I know 12 is also not all that unsafe. Still hoping.

I had sore bbs one morning a couple of days ago, other than that my nose has been running for two days now, but I otherwise feel just fine so not thinking I'm sick, but I do have year round allergies, so that is not all that uncommon for me. FX'd for us all. Merry Christmas to all and wishing you many heart felt gifts in the next few days. My gift to all of you is one big giant jar of baby dust....

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Registered: 02-12-2010
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Fri, 12-23-2011 - 8:54am

Annemarie,

Yeah I'm not much of a worrier myself, more of a go with the flow kind of gal. Life is life, it isn't like you have much control over the end result. All we can do is live it to the fullest and love as much as we can while we are here.

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Registered: 09-19-2011
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 8:02pm

Michele,

My husband has the same issues. He worries about my health and complications as well as a baby.

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In reply to: nuttinfancy
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 7:53pm

I wasn't trying to be "heavy" so much. I am a realist, so to me it's like DUH, there's complications in pregnancy. But my DH is very senstive for a doctor. Maybe because he is a recent grad (medicine was 2nd career for him), but the stuff he diagnoses and sees at the hospital still weigh heavily on his mind. I have seen him get misty eyed talking about someone who got cancer at 39. I am sooo glad he didn't decide to do pediatrics, it would have kicked his ass. Anyway, the point is, he is deeply afraid of losing me but he too realizes you can't live life that way. I was just so happy that we had such a lovely conversation about it and it and I felt like he heard me. I certainly don't want to die either but you know it will happen and it may be now or in 40 years from now (hopefully the latter). I just think it is great that we spoke about our fears together and we both felt a resolution. That isn't saying that it won't be other difficult conversations down the road. I wasn't trying to give you all one more thing to worry about, I figured most of you were aware of the complications... at least the possible complications.

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Registered: 08-17-2011
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 11:39am

May all of your uterus's be filled with joy this holiday season!!!:smileyvery-happy:

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In reply to: nuttinfancy
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 9:11am
Wow, this is heavy stuff. Unfortunately from going to my heartbreaking choices support group I do know that lots of things can happen in pregnancies at any age, yes pregnancy is stressful and worrisome but really let's just all focus on GETTING pregnant and then cross that bridge when we get to it if we ever do and I wish we all do every time I drop a penny in a fountain and wish on the first star I see at night. hugs and love - Sharon
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Registered: 09-19-2011
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 8:06am

Michele- Sending positive thoughts your way for a BFP.

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Tue, 12-20-2011 - 7:53pm

I think I am here. FF is confused because I am trying to get my timing down with work. Trying to work out early before work since I can't be at work until 8:30 at the earliest. Not a morning person, but set the alarm for 5:50 am so I could run yesterday. Of course then the temperature was way low. I think it would have been low anyway, so FF would likely be as confused. In any event I think I O'd maybe on CD13, two days ago. My monitor had a high reading yesterday (which was following two peak days). Today it read low fert again. So pretty sure I O'd 13th or 14th at the very latest. My CM was disappointing this month though. I think our BD timing was better.

ASIDE: Though, the other day DH was seeming unwilling and he seemed that way last cycle. So I asked him how he felt about us having a baby because he seemed distant and I just wished that he felt as interested in having a baby or TTC as I am. He said that he was on the fence because he was worried about all of the complications of pregnancy and especially due to my age. He said he was worried. I told him I just wanted to be a mother to our child whatever that means and that complications can happen to young ladies too. I asked if he wanted to stop, he said no. I think he is just having a hard time with the holidays. We lost his mother in February so this is our first Thanksgiving/Christmas without her. His dad died years ago, so I think he is worried about being left alone. It made me feel closer to him that we had that discussion and then last night I told him we still had a "high" read on the monitor. He was the initiator last night. I am so happy I have this man in my life. I am lucky to have such a sensitive man who is still my strength.

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Registered: 08-17-2011
In reply to: nuttinfancy
Fri, 12-16-2011 - 9:40am
Sorry about the bfn sharon. What herbs are u going to try? I am 6 dpo I think. My opks never got dark , don't think they ever do. But my cbfm didn't register a peak. I think this is my last chance. I won't be poas any more after this month and will just bd on cd 12 and 14. Think I will stop the 25mg dhea too. I will be testing on Christmas day! - Mary

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