down and depressed.

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Registered: 02-15-2008
down and depressed.
Sat, 09-26-2009 - 5:42pm

hi ladies

I'm so down and depressed i don't know what to do i was going to do my cryo cycle in October but dh work is slow so i want to hang on to the 4000.00 i have set aside for it and I'm worried about Christmas. i have 2 grade a waiting on me but i feel as if i should wait until January with all the stress and


mom to 3 won

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Registered: 07-07-2006
Sat, 09-26-2009 - 5:54pm


I am so sorry you are feeling down. I have to tell you that I agree with your DH; don't wait. I know you want to plan and it's wonderful that you are thinking ahead. However, I think we can't just wait for the perfect time. There would always be something else to wait for if that was the case. Just do it! It will all work out for the best.


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Registered: 09-13-2007
Sat, 09-26-2009 - 11:00pm
I agree w/ Lena.


Susan V

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Registered: 05-31-2004
Sun, 09-27-2009 - 3:33am
That is a tough one, since too much stress when TTC is not a good thing, but age greatly affects that too. At 40 and over things can change SO fast as far as fertility goes, that I would have to agree with your DH and the others that you should go for it now if at all possible. The longer you wait, the harder it becomes. If you were 35 I would say go ahead and wait until the stress eases a little, but I would hate to say that and then things change for you to make it worse. My experience has been that the stress never really leaves, it just changes course a little! Keep us posted on what you decide, okay? (((Hugs)))


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