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Wed, 01-11-2012 - 6:27pm

by comments made to me, over past few weeks!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Fri, 01-13-2012 - 6:11pm

the article helped me to understand, that there is just ZERO 'rhyme or reason' why it happens?!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Fri, 01-13-2012 - 4:17pm
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Fri, 01-13-2012 - 4:17pm
I loved that post u put up .. I never knew that .. I have had 5 babies ( all healthy ) and 3 previous miscarriages ... I am always questioning myself was it something that I did ... Was it exercise? Food I ate etc etc .. But that makes such sense and thankyou for posting it .. U have put my mind at ease .. I am sorry for your loss as well Hun .. I am nearly 43 .. So I feel I have missed my chance .. But I am sending u a very large amount of baby dust ... Xxxxx
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Fri, 01-13-2012 - 10:44am

thank you!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Fri, 01-13-2012 - 6:39am

My mother had two miscarriages after having me and my sister. The second one was when she was 41, doctors told her there is no chance that she could ever carry to terms again. She got pregnant after that and had my brother when she was almost 43. It is possible and it is nto late for you as long as you are healthy just as any other women should be healthy when trying to get pregnant.

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Thu, 01-12-2012 - 12:21pm

Just posted that article to show that a miscarriage happens, not just because the age of someone & it made me feel better! A lot of times, it's just unfortunate luck!

MANY women in their 20's & 30's miscarry too!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 01-12-2012 - 11:11am

found this article on m/c in case anyone else wants to read it:

"Despite their prevalence, it is always devastating when a woman experiences a miscarriage. A large portion of women will experience at least one miscarriage during their reproductive years. If you have had a miscarriage, take the time to understand better why these occur and why it is not your fault.

"When you conceive and a baby is created, it takes half its genes from the sperm and half from the egg that ovulated that month. At the exact time of conception, the cross-over of these genes takes place. Sometimes, for no reason other than bad luck, some information is lost and the pregnancy is destined from that point not to be.

"It might be that this lost information is not needed for many weeks, and the pregnancy will continue as normal until that time. When the needed information is not there, it is then that the baby dies and you begin to miscarry.

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 01-12-2012 - 10:25am

Vickie....thanks!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 01-12-2012 - 9:35am

Sorry I'm seeing this late and I just want to say I'm sorry people are so insensitive with the things that come out of their mouths. It isn't your fault that you lost that little one.

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Wed, 01-11-2012 - 9:05pm

thank you Annemarie....need to hear this......I am so fed up & frustrated with people, lately! I guess, my body & hormones are making me more emotional.....I just want a fair chance at being a mommy again!

I know of sooo many women that have had kids in their 40's and healthy babies!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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