loves_me (Dianne)

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Fri, 08-12-2011 - 4:46pm

Just wanted to check on you and see how that new job is going for you. Hope you are well and we miss you. Hope to hear from you soon.

Vickie

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Sat, 08-13-2011 - 9:21pm
Ditto!! =)
 
 
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Fri, 08-19-2011 - 9:08am
Aw hi guys, what a nice surprise to see this thread. It feels so good to be missed!

I have been really busy with my new job. I like it much more than the last one and I am grateful for all the distractions from TTC it brings.

DH and I decided to take the summer off of formally TTC. We still be at fertile times but no telling, no opks, no fertility docs. We decided to resume thinking and talking about it in the fall for mental health. Needless to say, its been impossible to stop thinking about it, and I have been super depressed. DH and I are having probe too. His family (mainly his mom) is too enmeshed with him, and its causing probe. Between their overwhelming presence in our lives and the infertility stress, the last year has taken a toll on our relationship. Gonna start marriage counseling.

All that said, I am not going to stop yrd. Whether things work out or not in my marriage, when I am old and gray and loom back on what I did thatmeant something, I want to see motherhood as one of those accomplishments. I hope my ch and I can work things out. We love each other, and when things are good, its a great marriage. Sad today.

-Dianne, 41 yo
DH 37


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Sat, 08-20-2011 - 2:17pm

So good to hear from you. I am glad you love the new job.

Sorry to hear you and hubby are having problems. I think counseling will be good. I know at times it would help me and the hubby. I understand about

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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 3:16pm
Hi Dianne: Thinking about you today and wishing you the best. -Pix

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 6:14pm
Hi pix, thanks for checking in. I've been thinking about you too. What's the latest? We started ttc around the same time. So much ha transpired for us both. Update when you can.

And Vickie you are a beacon of hope always. Thank you.

First off, I just want to say set the autocorrect feature on my cellphone has made my posts appear as if they were written by a third grader. If you can understand anything that I typed in my last post, you are amazing! Lol

Okay now for an update:

Things with me and DH Have improved significantly In the last couple of weeks. He has been amazing and supportive And I feel like we're closer than we never been. Sometimes I think you have to hit the bottle of something before you can really get to a great place. So relationship wise I am happier than I've ever been. But on a ttc front I am still really discouraged And also very very confused.

I would love your advice. What should I do next? Ivf?? We haven't done any fertility treatments yet because I just needed time to recover from the ectopic and miscarriage. I have physically recovered but emotionally it will take more time, which none of us ever really have over 40!

Anyway thanks for checking in. I will try to post more. I think about all of you often!!!!

I am going to try a local support group this week for the first time, sponsored by resolve.org. have any of you ever thought of doing this? I'll keep you posted.
hugs!

-Dianne, 41 yo
DH 37


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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 6:15pm
And again the autocorrect feature in my last post makes me look like I m stupid!! I am unable to edit my post from my cellphone. Sorry!!!

-Dianne, 41 yo
DH 37


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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 6:18pm
"Hit the bottle of something" = "BOTTOM of something"!! Hahaha... (Although I'd be lying if I didn't say TTC could drive anyone to drink!!!)

-Dianne, 41 yo
DH 37


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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 10:09pm
im so happy to hear things have improved for you two. i havent attended a resolve meeting mostly because of ivillage but it could be good! you asked "what would you do?" and I can only tell you what I *did* do: I'm in week 2 of my 2ww post DE IVF. We went all out. no more wasting time and money on IUIs and my old eggs for ivf. It was an emotional leap but I'm glad we decided on this route. ...but we'll see...one more week to go. if it doesn't work well then, yes, I'll hit the bottle! ;)

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Tue, 09-06-2011 - 9:03am
Wow pix!!! Im keeping my fingers crossed for you!! The odds are definitely in your favor with DEs!!! I am considering going that route. How did you choose your donor? Do you know her?

-Dianne, 41 yo
DH 37


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Tue, 09-06-2011 - 9:25am

Dianne, so good to hear from you. I am so glad that you and hubby are doing better. You have been in my thoughts and prayers.

If you are ready to try fertility treatments, I say go for it!

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