Pretty broken

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Pretty broken
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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 6:01pm
Hi there .. I am fairly new here but loved reading and following stories and experiences on here .. Gave me hope .. But sadly my dr told me yesterday that he won't allow me clomid and cut me down because of my age .. (43) he said I am too old to conceive and even tho I begged him to please let me try while I still might be able to ( regular 28 day cycle) he said he felt I wasn't ovulating now and clomid wouldn't help me .. I went home to my partner of three years .. Sad and upset ... I tried to explain how I felt and he cut me down and pushed me aside .. We broke up .. So now I have lost my soul mate and my dreams .. And I feel completely broken .. Things may change but I don't think so .. I guess maybe I obsessed over our baby dreams too much? I don't know .. But I do wish u all the best of luck in your baby journey and will hand on my baby dust to u all as I won't be needing it .. If anything changes I will be back .. But ATM its all I can do to get thru the day .. Luv n hugs Bec xx

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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 7:12pm

bec,

My doctor was not supportive of me TTC either.

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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 7:26pm

I am with Annemarie...you just have to have a supportive dr.....my 1st dr. I saw kind of laughed at me & pushed me aside, when I informed her we wanted to TTC at 43.....but we tried anyway & got pg., 1st try....unfortunately I m/c'd, but we are NOT giving up!!

Anything is possible...if you just have faith!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 7:40pm
Thanku Annemarie ... I know that u r so right .. It gets pretty hard at times .. Yes I do have the wrong dr I agree .. But it's so hard hearing All the time how impossible it is at my age to conceive .. .. I may be 43 .. Inside I feel so young .. Kinda sux .. I guess it's just taking each day at a time .. Baby steps .. Xxx
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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 7:45pm
I have followed your experience on here and I felt your pain and sadness ... I know if my partner has turned his back on me .. It was very wrong of him as he desperately wanted our baby .. And changing the goal posts when it all gets too tough is wrong .. It's dealing with that .. My crushed baby dreams .. And the negativity from drs and family .. But as women .. We r strong .. It's just getting over these first hurdles that hurt .. U r very strong .. I see that by your posts .. And so positive xx
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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 8:40pm

I am so sorry all that happened to you.

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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 9:48pm
Oh thanku Hun .. Your support means so much to me .. It has made me pick myself up .. And face the day .. If things improve I will find a new dr .. If he returns .. U girls have so much strength and so much to share .. I just need a light .. And some hope .. Luv n hugs back to u xxxx
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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 11:09pm

WOW Vickie.....that is absolutely unbelievable!!!!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Wed, 01-18-2012 - 5:11am
I found it humiliating to say the least .. It's like I walked out of the dr surgery 10 yrs older .. I'm relieved it isn't just me .. And u got pregnant!!!! How awesome !!! Xxxx
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Wed, 01-18-2012 - 11:32am

not only have I gotten pg. naturally.....I had friend on our July expecting club, who is 41 & she got pg. natuarally...also I have a friend who was 40, m/c'd, 41 pg. & gave birth, 42, m/c'd, 43 gave birth and it was all naturally!!

Do what you feel in your heart, not what doctors tell you!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Wed, 01-18-2012 - 5:37pm
Wow !!! That is so amazing .. It can happen!! Drs should not be allowed to be do negative .. It's demoralizing!!! My partner has not contacted me now this is the third day :-(. So maybe it was all too much for him .. But my heart says give him time xxx

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