Pretty broken

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Registered: 11-21-2011
Pretty broken
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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 6:01pm
Hi there .. I am fairly new here but loved reading and following stories and experiences on here .. Gave me hope .. But sadly my dr told me yesterday that he won't allow me clomid and cut me down because of my age .. (43) he said I am too old to conceive and even tho I begged him to please let me try while I still might be able to ( regular 28 day cycle) he said he felt I wasn't ovulating now and clomid wouldn't help me .. I went home to my partner of three years .. Sad and upset ... I tried to explain how I felt and he cut me down and pushed me aside .. We broke up .. So now I have lost my soul mate and my dreams .. And I feel completely broken .. Things may change but I don't think so .. I guess maybe I obsessed over our baby dreams too much? I don't know .. But I do wish u all the best of luck in your baby journey and will hand on my baby dust to u all as I won't be needing it .. If anything changes I will be back .. But ATM its all I can do to get thru the day .. Luv n hugs Bec xx

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Registered: 11-21-2011
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 7:09pm
I had previously had all tbe tests done by a specialist even the dye thru the tubes .. But my specialist left and moved to the mainland .. Disconnected her ph and my dr has no record of the results .. So someone had not done their job .. But I was told by the dr performing the dye thru tubes procedure that I was all clear so I know that one is good .. So getting all the bloods and sperm analysis done again isn't a big problem .. I will most definately let u all know how it goes and what they say .. Hugs to all xxx
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Registered: 09-19-2011
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 5:34pm

Yeah!!! So happy for you!

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Registered: 07-02-2007
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 3:33pm

I'm glad to hear your partner came back!

- Sandy (44) DS (natural) born just before my 41st birthday. TTC#2. Only issue: egg/embryo quality due to age. Clomid & multiple IUIs w/follistim &menopur = BFN. IVF#1 (Nov 2011) = 12 eggs, 9 mature & fertilized. Transferred 3 embryos (1-3BB, 2-3
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Registered: 04-21-2010
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 8:31am

I love reading good news! I'm so happy for you. You know you have to keep us posted

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Registered: 11-21-2011
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 12:56am
Thanku hunny .. Xxx
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Registered: 12-18-2011
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 12:50am
I love when things work out. Good luck with IVF.
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Registered: 11-21-2011
Fri, 01-20-2012 - 9:43pm
Just an update .. Hope this does not jinx me .. But my partner came back ... We talked .. He told me he can't handle the negativity of the drs and how it was affecting me .. So .. He asked me to do Ivf .. And has promised to call them Monday .. It had been something we had discussed to try this jan .. But the expense was an issue .. So here is hoping!! It has been a very good day .. Baby dust to all xxxx
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Registered: 11-21-2011
Wed, 01-18-2012 - 7:04pm
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Registered: 11-21-2011
Wed, 01-18-2012 - 5:37pm
Wow !!! That is so amazing .. It can happen!! Drs should not be allowed to be do negative .. It's demoralizing!!! My partner has not contacted me now this is the third day :-(. So maybe it was all too much for him .. But my heart says give him time xxx
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Registered: 03-28-2010
Wed, 01-18-2012 - 11:32am

not only have I gotten pg. naturally.....I had friend on our July expecting club, who is 41 & she got pg. natuarally...also I have a friend who was 40, m/c'd, 41 pg. & gave birth, 42, m/c'd, 43 gave birth and it was all naturally!!

Do what you feel in your heart, not what doctors tell you!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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