scared sad surgery freak-out

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scared sad surgery freak-out
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Mon, 08-02-2010 - 3:31pm

I'm having a bad day.

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Registered: 02-01-2008
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 4:17pm

OK.

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Registered: 09-13-2007
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 4:37pm
If you're scheduled for Friday I don't think you are going to screw up your September O.
 


 


Susan V

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Registered: 06-30-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 5:32pm
That's just it!

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Registered: 09-13-2007
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 5:52pm
Ahhh, nobody said it was going to be easy.
 


 


Susan V

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Registered: 06-30-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 5:55pm

a mini nap

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Registered: 09-13-2007
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 6:00pm
Another thought, since your surgery isn't until Friday maybe you could call the doc's office, tell them how anxious you are and they can call in valium for you or ask if they can have it for you when you get there.
 


 


Susan V

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Registered: 04-02-2005
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 6:22pm

Well, surgery always produces anxiety for me too. But try to visualize it being over and the cyst being gone and you are one step closer to your goal. This is a step in the process. A hurdle that you will soon be done with. Find a mantra, repeat it over and over and visualize. It doesn't always relieve everything but you've decided to do this and it will help you muster up your courage. It's

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Registered: 06-30-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 7:09pm
thanks gals/!!!!...believe me they WILL know about my anxiety!

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Registered: 06-19-2008
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 10:33pm
Don't freak!

:-) Brandy, 42 yrs. old


Mom of a fifteen n month old precious little boy, conceived in Aug. 08 on our second IUI attempt (C

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Registered: 06-24-2009
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 10:48pm

Oh Pixie,


I am the queen of irrational fears (not that this is irrational) and I create anxiety wherever it is not needed ~ I won't do accupuncture because I am afraid of needles, wouldn't

~ Jodi ~


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