Should I or shouldn't I?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2004
Should I or shouldn't I?
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 3:20pm
Just don't know what to do with myself.

I have been invited for a "girls night out" to a regional party spot - Put in Bay. Friday night would be the night - however, it's smack dab in the middle of O time.....

However, a one night break from DH would be nice, and a break from the stress at work would be nice too.

So should I go or not?

I don't think I'll beat myself up if we don't conceive this time however I might. I don't know. Last month I was pretty sad about it and was pretty sure that it was work stress that keeps it from happening (even though I know even in the best of circumstances, it's only a 20% crapshoot every month anyway) -

So yeah....what do you gals think?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2003
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 6:16pm
My recommendation would be that you go...but only if you're not going to second guess yourself later. Don't beat yourself up!! There's nothing wrong with some "girl" time and it will relieve a lot of stress.

I would try to time some baby dancing with your dh Friday morning & Saturday morning...I've read that every other day works best, with every day around the time you think O is coming.

Go have some fun!!


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2003
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 10:11am

I agree with Margie!!