So, please tell me where I go from here? (long)

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So, please tell me where I go from here? (long)
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Sat, 02-12-2011 - 1:24pm

So, I had my D & C yesterday and I'm still feeling a bit groggy and crampy...but otherwise I'm ok. I actually held it together pretty well going to the hospital and waiting in the waiting room with my DH. When the nurse called me back for pre-op and she put her hand on my shoulder and said" I'm so sorry you have to be here", I lost it....I just sobbed uncontrollably. They brought my DH back at that point. *sigh*

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Sat, 02-12-2011 - 5:22pm

I am still so very sorry this had to happen. I am glad to hear that hubby was with you thru it all.

Wish I could give you an answer as to keep trying or stop. I can say that

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Sun, 02-13-2011 - 12:51pm

As a natura1 hea1th practiti0ner myse1f- If y0u were c0ming t0 me f0r advice/0nsu1t- the first p1ace I w0u1d start is diet- and if y0u have PC0S- a grain free, sugar free diet is the best p1ace t start- a11 0rganic-

44- 5 children already- TTC number 6!
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Sun, 02-13-2011 - 11:13pm

I am very sorry for your losses and I hope that testing will be able to provide some answers for you.

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Mon, 02-14-2011 - 1:24pm
Thank you for your advice, Heidi.

I know full well how blessed I am to have our children...and I count my blessings everyday. I just still feel like there's someone missing in our family...and so it's hard to let go of that desire. I realize, at some point, I may have to though if we keep losing more babies.

Anyway, thank you again.
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Mon, 02-14-2011 - 11:31pm

Dani, I know how you feel about the "someone is missing" thing....I have 3 kids and know I am very blessed to have them, but I often search for the 4th - only to remind myself that I only have 3!