43.5 and questions about TTC

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43.5 and questions about TTC
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Sun, 08-14-2011 - 11:40am

hey there! This may be long, but my fiance & I are in the 'thinking stages' & I have questions that maybe some other women can answer for me.

1st my background: I had my dd, when I was 31, in my 1st marriage (conceived, no problem, without even trying....I was VERY blessed).

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 09-29-2011 - 6:32pm

Good luck!!!:smileyhappy:

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Tue, 09-27-2011 - 11:00am

Wishing you all the best and hoping to see you come back with a great update.

Vickie

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Tue, 09-27-2011 - 10:39am

just an update.....I am starting prenatals & CoQ10 tomorrow (I was going to do a couple more herbs, but changed my mind, I just don't feel like taking tons of pills)

Anyways, DF & I were going to wait until Oct. 28th to start, but I figured out my cycle & I will O a week before then, so we'll start trying a few days before I O.....I probably won't post much more, now, because I don't want to jinx anything.....but I will do an update, when I can, if I did or didn't get preggars.....only God knows, what He wants.

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 11:53am

if I didn't already say, my dd is 12 (I had her, when I was 31)

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 11:50am

awwww, I am sorry!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 6:42am
Crossing my fingers for you that the offer comes through. I know what you mean about finances. My hubby lost his job 2 months ago so now is definitely not a god time for us to have another baby! I told him my clock couldn't wait for him to find a job and he finally came around. Wishing you lots of good luck!
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Sat, 08-27-2011 - 12:26pm

Thanks Vickie....good news, the letter finally arrived!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Wed, 08-24-2011 - 8:22am

Hopefully that letter will show up today and he will get the good news that the job is his. Got my FX for him.

YAY that you have everything all worked out and a plan in motion. If I put our finances down on paper, we can't afford a baby at all, and it doesn't look like I can stay and eat

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Tue, 08-23-2011 - 5:39pm

Just a 'check in' & update, for anyone curious.

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 08-15-2011 - 5:42pm

Wel, thank you....we'll see, I'll keep posting & updating, what's going on, just in case anyone else in their 40's reads this & is curious!

I have had a pretty messed up life, up until I started counseling (when I was 35) and have been trying to 'heal my wounds' of the past.....I continue to have to deal with, not one, but two messed up parents.

My saving grace, in my life, has been my dd (who I am so blessed with....she really is a gift from God!) & now my fiancee....so it would be REALLY nice to be blessed again.

BUT, we will try until I turn 45 & if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen.....I will be sad, but I will continue to realize & thank God, for all my blessings I have today & continue to have each future day!

I know I sound corny, but I have had a REALLY tough life, growing up & have faced death 4 times.....so I have a lot of experience behind my 43 years.

Anyways, I will check in, from time to time...this is exciting!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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