Ashermans Syndrome and Intro

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Ashermans Syndrome and Intro
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Sun, 04-05-2009 - 8:30pm

Hello Ladies,


Im new here so Ill introduce myself, Im 42 and Ive had 3 m/c the last in november with triplets.

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Registered: 08-22-2008
Sun, 04-05-2009 - 9:07pm

Sarah~


Welcome to our board! I can't say I know anything about

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Registered: 08-17-2007
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 9:47am

Welcome, Sarah. I'm sorry you've had such a tough road -- three m/cs is three too many, for sure.

I don't have Asherman's Syndrome but it seems it's treatable by hysteroscopic surgery. That, I can talk about -- I just had it to remove a uterine septum and polyp last month. Happily, I had no pain whatsoever -- the worst of it was the IV. It's different for everyone but for me it was totally not a big deal, and the surgeon gave me the go-ahead to TTC with the very next cycle. If you need laparascopy as well, it might be a BIT more involved, but I've heard that's not so bad either. I'm rooting for you and wishing you a great outcome.

Good for you for going to a support group and for seeking therapy. You're going through an awful lot and deserve to be helped. We are here for you, too!

Keep us posted on how things are going.


Susan CB






Susan CB

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Registered: 03-24-2009
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 11:14am

Thank you ladies,


Susan thanks for the info on the hystogram, I had a lap in november with the d and c so I know what that is like.

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Registered: 08-22-2008
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 11:32am

Sarah~
Ahh you've have some losses to deal with recently. And I think your entitled to allow yourself time to grieve them. And feeling sad and depressed is a normal feeling during this time. Don't be too hard on yourself. Treat yourself gently right now. I am a Christian, so the Lord picks me up when I fall down. He wipes the dust off of me and sets me back on my feet. This is where I find strength thru those hard times and losses. Sure I got mad at God at times and asked "WHY!?" It all seemed kinda cruel to me. But I realize He has a huge plan for our lives and I may not always understand at the time so I just keep trusting, and counting my blessings I do have.

One of my doggie babys is 15 yrs old right now. So soon I will be grieving her passing too. I'm a big animal lover and have cried rivers over my pets too. {HUG} What kid of doggy was yours? Mine is a Ori Pei (Sharpei/Pug).

{{HuGs}}
Renee

Michael & Renee


10/29/83


DS25,DS23,DD21,DD16


TL 2/93


TLR 10/99


DD8,DS6,DS4


M/C @7 wks 3/03, M/C @13 wks

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Mon, 04-06-2009 - 11:55am

Renee,


Maggie was a 8 pound shih tzu. She developed a cough and then siezures.

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Mon, 04-06-2009 - 2:31pm

Sarah~
Ahh no wonder you miss your puppy dog. I'm glad she went in her sleep too. I hope my doggie goes that way too so I don't have to bring her to put her down and all. No wonder you miss you little cuddly lap dog to love? 14 yrs is a long time to have a "friend" such as your dog.

I lost my last PG in Oct at 14 wks and I was so confused too with God. There is a young gal in our Bible Study group we had all been trying to witness to. Her story is complicated and such. But in a nut shell she left her DH and her 4 yr old DD, got PG by a B/F who beats her and is currently serving jail(the b/f) for it,and now is due any day and has a all new b/f hanging round her. This gal and I were due only two wks apart this April. Here she is with a mixed up life and gets to keep her baby, while I have been married 25 yrs, am in a stable home and I lose my baby. I have to be honest it still stings right now when I think of this. It seems so unfair. But in my child like heart I just know that God knows best. Even when I don't understand and stomp my foot at him. I keep clinging to this in my heart. I also keep wondering what God is teaching me thru this experience. I have seriously thought of adoption myself. I just want a child to love and nurture. I enjoy being a mom so very much.

I don't know your full circumstances, but would you ever get a new doggie baby to love and cuddle during this hard time in life? I believe God gave us pets to soothe us during the hard spots. Maybe having a new snuggle buddy would help ease that empty feeling you have? I hope I don't come across weird here. But I just know how much pets have been a comfort to me. And looking back over the 15 yrs I have had my dog she has snuggled up to me during those tough days and that is why I love her so much. You can email me directly if you would care t. I believe I will check my settings to make sure you can.
Renee

Michael & Renee


10/29/83


DS25,DS23,DD21,DD16


TL 2/93


TLR 10/99


DD8,DS6,DS4


M/C @7 wks 3/03, M/C @13 wks

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 4:23pm
Sarah, what you are feeling is normal and not a pity party for yourself.

 

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Registered: 09-13-2007
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 6:42pm
Hugs Sarah!!!
 


 


Susan V

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Mon, 04-06-2009 - 7:49pm

Ruth,


I got maggie when I was going thru a really bad time and she has comforted me so many times.

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Registered: 07-10-2008
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 10:35am
Welcome!

Jessica

Me - 44, DH-47     

 

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