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|Thu, 03-02-2006 - 3:19am|
Hello. I will reiterate another’s words by saying – I am new here.
I am 43, my husband is 32. I have 2 children from a previous marriage, my husband has never had children and wants them desperately. I have already had 2 miscarriages in the last year. I took Clomid and did everything necessary, BBT, etc. to get pregnant. My dr said I had very little chance to conceive. My husband keeps telling me, the one thing left that will make him happy is to have his own child. I am so scared and confused about all the statistics of “older” women having high risks of birth defects (1st child born congenital amputee @ age 30).
After reading many of the messages posted here. Between trying to relax and just letting it happen, researching, confusion & uncertainty of “multiples” through IVF and fertility pills/shots, birth defects and many many tears, I just do not know which way to turn.
I knew I was not the only one in this situation but am grateful, after reading everyone’s posted messages that support and understanding does exist.
My prayers and wishes are with everyone out there, at this or any stage in our life, trying to bring a miracle into this world.