I need to get over this but I don't thin

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Registered: 07-02-2006
I need to get over this but I don't thin
Sun, 07-02-2006 - 1:35pm

I need help I hope some one can.. I was married to a terrible man for aLMOST 10 YEARS!He would NOT let me have a child(now I am glad I never did with him) I finally left him! I have been with my 2nd hubby for 12 years now! Very happy except I had a miscarriage 6 years ago and never was able to get pregnant again!Now my best friend from school is pregnant(she is 45 -this is her first) I want to be there for her but it is so hard for me.I am such an emotional wreak. I was doing better but now she sent me pic's of the sonagram and her and her big belly and I am a wreak again! I can't stop crying! I want to be there for her but I don't think I can be! How do I overcome this??Help ..please some one HELP!

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Sun, 07-02-2006 - 8:11pm

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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 2:23pm


Oh this is so hard.

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Registered: 08-09-2004
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 10:44pm
I know how you feel. When I was 35, I was still single and no boyfriend anywhere in sight. But I badly wanted a child. My best friend got pregnant. It was VERY hard for me to be happy for her. Because even though I wanted to, I had no one to get pregnant with and my biological clock was ticking.