Irregular periods 1st time in my life

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Registered: 06-06-2004
Irregular periods 1st time in my life
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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 3:35am
I am 41 and turning 42 in July. My cycle lengths since Dec 2003 were: 28, 29, 24, 25, 28, 39. This last LONG cycle length really upset me. This is the month my husband and I will try to get pg, so I was WAITING for my period to start and it took 39 days!

We have a 3 yo. We conceived her the second month after we married. I was 39 and gave birth at 39. Since I had no problems at 39 having a child, I took my reproduction for granted, and chose to wait until she was 3 to have another even though my OBGYN advised against it.

I am very down over my last cycle number of 39 days, because I know the writing is on the wall that I am entering perimenopause. My mom and grandma ended their periods at 59, so I didn't expect to start at 41.

I know that it will be more difficult to conceive now. That isn't what is really bothering me. What is bothering me is entering another stage of life. I have trouble with change and with aging. I have always looked younger than I am. I have to start focusing on the positives. I just have to get used to perimenopause. It just happened to me the last few months. Thanks for listening.

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Registered: 06-06-2004
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 12:21pm
Dear Mary,

Thank you very much for replying and for the advice. I will definitely be making an appt with an RE in the next few days.

You were a BIG help!

One friend of mine got pregnant at 44 as do a whole lotta lovely 40+ ladies out there, therefore I pray you will too!

Regards,

Barbara

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Registered: 10-03-2003
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 6:36pm
Try not to panic just yet. It could have been something other than perimenopause that caused your late AF. I don't know if you have been to an RE specialist yet, but you should immediately start testing. The first test they will run is a day 3 FSH and that will give them an idea of your egg reserve. I waited a little to long to start investingating things and now I really regret it.

Getting older is really hard. I turn 43 in August and have been TTC #1 for two years. We haven't given up hope yet, but I feel like a complete failure. I just got a BFN on my second IUI this past weekend.

Hang in there and don't procrastinate to seek help.

Mary