Need advice on TTC
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|Fri, 11-14-2008 - 12:29am|
OK here is the deal, I just had a baby last January, and of course being over 40 and not planning it, it was a shock.. But he is a totally awesome child and having him woke up this need to have just one more baby... so when he was 6 mo old I stopped breast feeding and waited for my period, got it and then we started doing the bd.. so here I am now in November and not pregnant.. this next child would be my sixth.. never had any trouble getting preggers when I wasnt planning it.. but anyway.. thats not the real issue....
The issue is, im having some second thoughts.. part of me wants another, and another part doesnt, I have recently decided to go back to school and another baby would def make that harder, not impossible but harder...
Why cant things be cut and dry... simple...
So i am not asking if I should continue trying but advice on if these feelings are normal?
and if you think these feelings are coming on because I am trying to return to school?