Need a place to vent my worries

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Registered: 03-21-2011
Need a place to vent my worries
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Mon, 03-21-2011 - 10:25am

Hello Everyone,

I am new on here. The Friday before this one just past I had a m/c. Technically I was 12 weeks, but the baby had died at 10 weeks 5 days. Saturday morning I had a D&E. This coming Wednesday I have a follow up

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Registered: 09-29-2010
Mon, 03-21-2011 - 4:55pm

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss.

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Registered: 12-11-2010
Mon, 03-21-2011 - 8:11pm

Soooo sorry to hear about your miscarriage. ~HUGS~ I've had 4 over the past 10 years and have been TTCing on and off for 12. It's heart breaking every single time.

Try not to be afraid if you get news other than you're "good to go". I'm so glad I kept asking 'why'. I haven't been symptomatic for anything, but with all the blood work and testing the doctors uncovered problems that left unchecked may have been life threatening later.

Sometimes it's something as little as a vitamin deficiency, but in the end all of us want the same thing-a healthy full term baby. Good luck to you on your journey and knowo you're in good company.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Tue, 03-22-2011 - 12:38pm
I'm so sorry about your loss :( I hope that it all goes well at your appointment, let us know how it goes. I'm glad you found the board, it's a very supportive group.

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Registered: 08-18-2010
Tue, 03-22-2011 - 11:02pm
So sorry for your loss lucyjane. I hope you get the go ahead after your D&C.
Elizabeth-41 Y/O

Mom to 3 Y/O boy

TTC #2 since April '08


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Registered: 06-01-2010
Wed, 03-23-2011 - 12:07am
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss but hopefully you will get encouraging news from your ob/gyn. I also had a MC this past weekend at 7 weeks. I read something online that said that God calls on special mommies to help him make lil angels. Wishing you good news.

Yvonne
TTC - June 2009
Me-41, DH-47


DD-19, DS-14, and a Sweet Baby w/ angel wings


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Registered: 04-21-2010
Wed, 03-23-2011 - 7:50pm

Hi and welcome. So sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 03-01-2010
Fri, 03-25-2011 - 2:54pm

Hello, welcome to the board, I am so sorry for your loss. I was 42 and my fiance (we have since married) was 46 when we found ourselves surprisingly pregnant last February, we were so excited but unfortunately due to a large fibroid in my uterus we didn't know about we lost the baby at 7 weeks. I just had surgery to have the fibroid removed 7 weeks ago and despite our age we are trying again. I really hope you are able to conceive again, please keep us posted!

 
 
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Registered: 06-19-2008
Sun, 03-27-2011 - 10:51pm
well, here's the good news. very few times will a doctor look at you and say you will never again be able to have a baby. something would have to be SERIOUSLY wrong, and the chances of that happening are super slim. and although 40 seems old, it's still not too old to have a child. i have my first one at 41! remember that knowledge is power, and b/c you were recently pregnant, it will probably be easier for you to get preggers again soon. i am so very sorry for your miscarriage. give yourself some time to heal from that. we are here for you!

:-) Brandy, 42 yrs. old


Mom of a fifteen n month old precious little boy, conceived in Aug. 08 on our second IUI attempt (C

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Registered: 03-21-2011
Mon, 03-28-2011 - 1:29pm

My Dr. was wonderful! I posted after my appointment under the thread "all systems go". I even found out why I haven't gotten pregnant the last 15 years, how I got pregnant this time, and how to get pregnant again!

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 03-28-2011 - 2:38pm
I need to go check that out! Your appointment sounds very promising.