need some advice and insight, please?
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|Thu, 10-14-2004 - 12:28pm|
My mother would of course, kill me if I did, but I cannot let her decide my life's path, right? She was mad that I had a third. She isn't really into children the way that I am. She hardly ever spends time with my new son, prefering the older son because he is self-sufficient. She sees no reason why I wanted the third baby when my daughter was going into first grade and I would finally be getting my "life back". I do not see things her way at all. I love being a mommy to a little guy again.
I also worry about being 40 and the risks associated with having another baby at my age. And am I being greedy wanting to think of another, when some people can't even have one? I feel so much for those people. I just have so many unanswered questions, but I am 40 and need to make the decision in the near future. Any insight from this board would be so much appreciated. You can post here, or if easier just e-mail me @ firstname.lastname@example.org
thank you and hugs to you all. good luck in trying to conceive a new little person!