sad to say goodbye again

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Registered: 11-16-2008
sad to say goodbye again
Sun, 04-12-2009 - 11:26am

I want to wish you ladies the best of luck. My fiance has decided he doesnt want to take a chance on getting pregnant again. I am so disappointed and sad but I will get over it. I do have 3 healthy beautiful kids and I have to accept his decision. Takes two to raise one.

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Registered: 07-25-2008
Sun, 04-12-2009 - 10:30pm
Thank you Carolyn for your well wishes.
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Registered: 04-07-2009
Mon, 04-13-2009 - 9:23am

Good bye and good luck Carolyn. it's too bad your stay withus was so short, but please feel free to drop in or return any time. Hopefully your finace will have a change of heart, but I hope you'll be ok regardless of what happens.


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Registered: 05-28-2008
Mon, 04-13-2009 - 11:23am

Carolyn, perhaps it's worth a deep talk with him. If it ends up that you do not try to have a baby, then you are where you are now. But perhaps he doesn't realize how important this is to YOU. I know it takes two to raise one, but maybe you can talk through the reasoning for why he doesn't want to try. Just a suggestion. I wish you much luck and hope he has a change of heart!!! HUGS!!!!