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|Sun, 01-13-2013 - 3:22pm|
Well unless we win the lottery or have an amazing tax return check, we're benched...no IVF this year. We simply can't afford it. We were planning on using a credit card to cover the 20% of it that our insurance doesn't cover but we can barely make minimums now and even though i got a 3% raise at work my paycheck is lower than it was before due to tax increases this year. We paid for the first IVF with a 401k loan that will still be a few years before its paid off. We can't afford to take a secone one out.
I plan to do my best to try and pull us out of this mess so we can try again eventually. Though I am beginning to wonder if maybe its not for the best that we don't have kids. Taking care of DH is a full time job most of the time on top of my full time job. I also am still not 100% okay with using DS. In the meantime I guess we'll keep 'trying' at home and hope DH has some sperm one of these months and we will have a miracle baby without going further into debt and using DS. Seems hopeless though...I guess I need to accept that child free may be my infertility resolution.
Best of luck to everyone here. I will try to stop in and check in on you all as much as I can.
Thanks for all your support.