Keeping Sex Interesting
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|Sun, 09-26-2010 - 9:54pm|
Even before we reached what I believe to be "long timer status" in our ttc journey, I always wanted to make sure that regardless of whether we were BDing or having sex for pleasure that we always remembered that we do "it" because we love each other. This is not to say that all BD sessions have to be full of romance (I can honestly say that our quickies keep me just as satisfied), but I do know that it can become somewhat of a chore when you're so focused on the end result.
What are some of the ways you keep BD interesting? Do you do anything differently when you're in the fertile window so it doesn't feel like you're accomplishing a task? What about when you're not BD for the baby?
For me, I've come to enjoy lingerie even more. I'm slowly expanding my collection, and recently bought a blue corset (on clerance!) that I've paired with some stockings, gloves and a silky robe. It makes me feel sexy which I think makes a difference!