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|Mon, 06-21-2010 - 5:12pm|
Hello everyone!! Hope you are all well!
I have been away from the boards awhile, DH and I have been take a break for the last month, and I think we might jump back on the TTC wagon next month, naturally that is...
Anyway have been dealing with a whole new set of emotions that steam rolled me last week...I found out my sister in law, who just had a baby in December, is again pregnant, the kicker is she is 5 months pregnant!!! And the kicker is she didn’t know until this past Tuesday, not sure how that could happen, as she is very slender and even had bad morning sickness (with both)..
She knows all of the fertility issues DH and I have been having, and so I would have thought she would have been a little more sensitivity when she told us..she even seemed to understand how we felt, I guess as best she could anyway…But she wasn't, thankfully, my DH's father told us a few days earlier...I cried pretty hard when DH told me…
Anyway sis in law was a total jerk, I even commented at one point during our conversation that "it must have been hard to tell us" to which she replied "No, it wasn't hard to tell you at all, I am happy I am pregnant"...Then she had the gal to say she understood how I felt because she had a child already..I had to correct her and let her know that is the exact reason that she does not understand…
I did tell her it was bitter sweet for us, but we were happy for them, she then replied "it doesn't seem like you are happy for us"...I was not rude or mean, nothing, I am just sad…
I honestly wanted to punch her in the face after that! Anyway, I am demanding an apology for her crappy behavior, I would treat a stranger better than she treated me..How could she be so insensitive????
-TTC #1 for about 12 months
-2 failed IUI's
-4 cycles of clomid (3-50mg, 1-100mg)
-Moving on to injections in the fall
-have a pituitary gland tumor that increases prolactin and prevents me from having normal ovulation
-have had every test (almost) under the sun!