This is an introduction of us....

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Registered: 01-22-2009
This is an introduction of us....
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 11:33pm

This is an introduction of us....

My partner, 39, been divorced 3 years with no children. He had his vasectomy almost 4 years ago. He was married for 17 years and his ex wife did not want any children. He was content with that because he thought he was going to spend the rest of his life with her. Soon after the procedure he started feeling the emptiness. He loves children to death but was content on not having any children because that was what his ex wife wanted. He regrets having the procedure done.

Myself, I'm 30, been divorced 6 yrs. I have 2 smart amazing boys ages 14 and 13 from my previous. I thought I was over and done with little babies, diapers, strollers, etc. I used to always say I can do whatever I want when my kids become an adult. I'd be 33 going to my oldest son's graduation and by the time I'm 34, I'm done. They'll be off in college and I'll be living my own life.

I find myself feeling empty and wanting a little one to add to our family. I feel that having a baby with someone is a miracle. When 2 people love each other so much, why wouldn't we want to create something of our own. We both never imagined it would be a possibility that we have a chance to have a baby together. I just pray that God will bless us. We spent a few hours talking and picking our baby boy and or girl's name already.

After speaking with Dr. Wilson, he says he will be able to tell us if it's possible or not. We scheduled our appt with Dr. Wilson for April 3, 2009 for the VR. It's 5 weeks until the procedure. We've got our plane tickets already. We still need to get a place to stay. We're both really excited!

I wanted to say thanks to all of you that have posted all your experiences and the great info about Dr. Wilson. We decided that this is what we want to do and we definitely have a chance. We feel we are very loving and caring people. We pray that God will bless us with a miracle.

Any ideas or experiences would be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much for reading.

Edited 2/25/2009 8:43 pm ET by geanie2000
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Registered: 01-29-2008
Wed, 02-25-2009 - 7:35am

Hi and welcome to the board!

It sounds like you have a great plan!

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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Registered: 10-02-2008
Wed, 02-25-2009 - 8:02am

Welcome and congrats on getting your date set!

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Registered: 09-04-2008
Wed, 02-25-2009 - 9:14am

I can totally relate.


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Registered: 11-02-2008
Wed, 02-25-2009 - 3:49pm
Welcome aboard! :)

~ Heather

~ Heather   *Bright Blessings*

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Registered: 01-22-2009
Wed, 02-25-2009 - 10:10pm
Thank you all very much for the kind words.

I really hope that we all have the
baby that we all long for.

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