Joined along time ago and left but back for support

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Registered: 03-19-2005
Joined along time ago and left but back for support
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 7:00pm

I'm April, Dh and I have been married for 22 years. We have 7 children.....then my dh did the unthinkable and had a Vasectomy while they were in there fixing something else. This was almost 5 years ago and I am still sad about it. He's agreed to have it reversed but it's really expensive here in Oregon so I am again looking into Dr. Wilson but literally scared to death to proceed even though I am more scared to not get this fixed. It has put a huge strain on our marriage and I feel there is one more little soul waiting for us. We are older. I am 43 in Sept. and he is 49.

April Wife to Jim Mama to my 7 amazin
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Registered: 07-07-2008
Welcome to the boards. I'm on the TR side of things, but many of the woman here have experience with Dr. Wilson and from what I've read over the time I've been here, most (if not all of them) are really happy with him.

I hope things go well for you and you can get in touch with Dr. Wilson to get a VR set up soon! Good luck!
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Hi April, welcome to the board! I've heard lots of great things about Dr. Wilson, I hope you can get the reversal done soon. It's very hard to not listen to that little voice telling you that a soul is still out there that's meant for your family, I totally get that feeling.

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Registered: 04-07-2009

Good luck. It seems like the majority of people who are outside this journey aren't able to understand that feeling, especially if you already have children.