Adrienne - Hope it's okay that I started this....
GL Mari!! P&PT for you. KUP.
I hope you get nothing but good news.
Alyssa - I asked a similar question when my husband was freaking out about it and got some good advice. Here's the link:
We're doing a mixed-bag approach and making meal times low stress...Avery is definitely more into solids when she feeds herself. She has gagged, which makes me nervous each time, but she always works it out and is not bothered in the least. Good luck and just learn to roll your eyes for now, and when everyone is super impressed with what a good eater Evan is you can say "I told you so." :)