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Cassie-sorry things are rough with DH.
Ella - I am the same way with my friends. In fact my good friend had her little boy 10 days after I had Gabby and she is DTD a heck of a lot more than we are...Honestly I think DH and I DTD 1 time a month. One time we DTD 2 times in a week, but that was seriously a fluke and I think I felt bad for him. I don't feel in the mood all that often. and with my friend, I know she doesn't feel in the mood and just does it. So maybe that's the difference?
Mari - I know that's what I have to do with DTD, I have been trying even if I am not the slightless in the mood for it I try to just let go and get into it, because like you said usually after awhile you are actually in the mood for it.KUP on your Nonna! I hope everything goes well with the surgery. I haven't talked to my mom today, if she didn't sleep well she will probably be busy with Grandpa this morning, so I want to give her time and I will call her later this afternoon if she doesn't call me. I guess I just keep going back to when I was 11 and 12 and had to watch my dads' parents age. They moved into a nursing home and about a year later passed away. We used to go every Sunday to visit them (and to this day I hate sundays I think for that reason). I loved seeing them, just hated seeing them get sicker and sicker. My grandma went from being this amazing person to someone who didn't know which world she was in and couldn't hold her head up anymore and confined to a wheelchair. So I think I just don't want to see him going through this..but I need to be optimistic that it's going to work out.
Anyway = Thanks for listening. on a plus side Gabby slept in her crib the entire night last night! Major breakthrough for us. It took us about an hour at 10:30 to get her back down - usually she just eats and then goes back to sleep. and she wouldn't settle down, but I put her in there and she would fuss for a minute and then she would stop for a minute and fuss for a minute and this continued for a 1/2 hour. but I just let her self soothe herself and she fell asleep until 4am. so major major breakthrough for us on the sleep front. and no motrin was given last night!
Sorry all you ladies are having issues with not being in the mood. I have never had that problem even while breastfeeding/pumping and being on the pill. I was on the pill 10+ years before David and I was told that a lot of women have issues, luckily I don't.
Not much going on here. We are finally all well after being sick after coming home from Florida. Boy, I wish we could have had another week down there. I did not want to go back to work. Looking forward to my next long weekend which is Memorial Day so it isn't too far away.
My DH and I are going out to dinner tonight. We got a $100.00 gift card to St. Elmo's from his boss for Christmas which is the premiere steakhouse in Indianapolis. All the Indy car drivers go there when they are in town for race weekend. So, it will be nice to get out tonight.
Hope everyone has a nice Mother's Day. Not sure what DH has planned for me. I told him he doesn't have to take me out on Mother's Day since we are going out tonight but we'll see.
David Nicholas 12/5/09Expecting a GIRL 3/23/13