Cultural differences in parenting

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Cultural differences in parenting
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Mon, 01-16-2012 - 12:56pm

Just curious to hear from some of you moms, especially those who may come from a different cultural background than your DH:

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Registered: 09-12-2008
Fri, 01-27-2012 - 9:48pm
Ruthie,

My DH is very into using wet wipes after #2 so hopefully your DH will come around too! One thing I'm still not used too is that Turks (my DH and his family here included) throw all of their used toilet paper in little bathroom garbage cans, not the toilet.(?)

Traffic in Turkey is nuts, but a little more advanced than Bangladesh (no rickshaws, etc). Even my DH doesn't like driving there. We borrowed his uncle's stick shift Renault to drive to a summer resort last summer and my DH was so beat from driving stick in traffic!

When we went last summer, we didn't bring a car seat for Selin because we didn't anticipate needing/using a car as most of his family doesn't own one. Luckily one of his friends had a bucket seat so we used that while we were there. Selin did fit in it, although her legs hung out a little, but I figured any car seat was better than none at all. There were a few times we had to ride with her without one and I was holding onto her for dear life. When we go this summer, we will be bringing our Britax. I'm sure we'll get lots of stares as that thing is humongous! Lol

Oh and going back to the whole toilet issue...the first time I went to Turkey, back in 2006, we were near a ferry station and I had to pee. There was a public (pay) restroom outside the station and all the stalls were holes in the ground! Thankfully I had travel toilet paper with me but my aim was not so good while squatting and I peed a little on my jeans! Of course my DH got a big laugh out of it and we still joke about it to this day. Thankfully all of his relatives have "regular" toilets. :-)

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Registered: 08-24-2005
Mon, 01-30-2012 - 9:37am

One thing I'm still not used too is that Turks (my DH and his family here included) throw all of their used toilet paper in little bathroom garbage cans, not the toilet.(?)

LOL!! Yeah, that happens around here too... In fact my in laws have the little bathroom bin!!

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Mon, 01-30-2012 - 10:00pm

Mari- After looking into cloth diapering, I saw those diaper sprayers that you can attach to the toilet.

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Registered: 08-24-2005
Tue, 01-31-2012 - 7:24am

...After looking into cloth diapering, I saw those diaper sprayers that you can attach to the toilet... I wonder if it could be a *dual-purpose* sprayer lol!
Probably yes!!!

Ok, I guess I should share my bathroom-culture-shock tale:

OH Ruth... that must have been sooooooo horrible!!!! Even coming from a "butt washing" culture... I would have done the same as you!
I can understand the sanitary aspect in a clean, private bathroom with soap and RUNNING water in the bowl.... but with standing water?????? and no soap for afterwards???????? I'm sorry, but I'd rather have a tiny bit of poop on my butt and not a world of germs on my hands!! That's an epidemic waiting to happen!!!! I hope you didn't have to shake hands with many people!

The rest of the time I was having the "opposite" problem and whenever DH would announce "I have to poop" I would say "Well, it must be nice!!!!!"
LOL!! Same problem here!!!!

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Registered: 02-11-2009
Wed, 02-01-2012 - 8:49pm
Haha, oh Ruth, that sucks!!! What a story! I had some definite squatting over a hole adventures in Africa but nothing like that!!
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Registered: 02-16-2008
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 11:54am
ruthieb85 wrote:

Mari- After looking into cloth diapering, I saw those diaper sprayers that you can attach to the toilet.

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