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When to get concerned?
| Fri, 11-11-2011 - 12:54pm |
Hi Ladies, especially mom's of older babies...
Maxim is 18 months today and the daycare had us do a short development screen for both 15 months and 18 months.

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I know James is only 12 months, but I studied cognitive science with a focus on linguistics/language acquisition, etc . . . I would NOT be concerned AT ALL.
To add a few other thoughts . . .
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As far as one on one time with your kids goes, I totally could have written what you wrote Adrienne. I rarely spend tons of time just "playing" with James and he is very verbal. He speaks in complete sentences with pretty good grammar, and he's not even 2.5 yet. I think all kids are just so different, and there's not a whole lot you can do that will effect these early milestones. Some kids learn from TV, some don't, some crave lots of one on one play, some are better at playing on their own, as long as what you're doing is within reason, I don't think you need to stress over whether or not you spend hours each day working on their language development. David started walking at 8 months, but it's not like I was making him practice for hours every day and that's why he did it, that was just when he hit that particular milestone.
Also, Ruby, I never really worked with James very much on his body, and he still somehow managed to figure them all out :-)
Erica,
Thanks again for affirming that I need to correct the daycare on his name.
Ruby- I agree with the others, and Honestly I wouldn't be concerned yet.
Fede is 5 months older than Maxim and he still doesn't "talk", and he sin't even bilingual!!. He only has between 5 and 10 words!! I'm mildly worried about it, but on the other had, he has tons of sounds for things (for example, he makes a clearly different, and extremely accurate sound for the lawnmower and the trimmer), points at all the correct body parts when we name them, he obviously understands EVERYTHING we say to him, etc... So I'm taking it easy for now.
I agree with some of the other ladies that if he isn't really taking off by two then I would be a little more concerned. Or speak with a specialist and not someone at day care. Working in the hospital you should have someone you could get a opinon from correct?
Cassie
I just have to say I love all these awesome responses you got Ruby!
I don't have older kids, but wanted to give my 2 cents anyway!
Ruby- I agree with what has been said thus far, but wanted to add a funny story about not using a nickname. We only call William, William. He has never been called anything else by DH or another family member so that was all he responded to. A girl I work with calls him Will all the time even after being corrected and she could never figure out why he didn't respond to her. Now that he has an idea of when she talks to him he will sometimes respond. The other day she called him Will and he looked at her said, "No, I Willem(that's what he calles himself). Who Will?" He has now realized that he is William and not anything else....hopefully she starts calling him William.
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I know I'm late and you already got a ton of great responses but I wanted to chime in.
Some days I wonder about Teddy and not talking, because by this age Ray had over 5 words.
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