In a Funk

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Registered: 02-26-2008
In a Funk
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 2:14pm

This is a vent post - so feel free to ignore it.....

I just cannot seem to get out of this funk at work...I really need to change my attitude. But I don't like getting up in the morning and go into work - in the past I didn't, but this is different. I don't think it's depression because I am happy in everything else in my life, but part of me is starting to wonder if that's what it is.

I am thinking I am going to schedule an appointment with my therapist to try to get in and see her in the next week or so. Because I really don't know what to do about it.

When I am not at work I am great (besides a few hormonal breakdowns here and there). DH and I are doing pretty good - except in the bedroom area. When I am at work I want to be doing everything but working. I don't like the projects I am on, I don't feel a sense of pride in what I am doing or delivering at work. Which in turn is making me feel like a total slacker. I would rather read the newspaper, be on here or facebook then be at work. I LOVE the work from home days because I can do stuff around the house. This isn't like me.....GRRR only 3 months, I can make it 3 months can't I?

Thanks for listening.

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Registered: 05-11-2010
In reply to: lady_bug_0600
Sat, 05-15-2010 - 6:49pm

Jess--I'm glad you are working through your feelings, that is really important.

In terms of sex positions, DH and I have this position we call "lazy sex", that might work for you. It's like modified spoons where I am lying on my back with my legs over DH's back and legs and he is lying on his side. We originally termed it that when we were feeling too lazy for either of us to hold ourselves up in any way, LOL, but I actually really like it because the penetration isn't too deep and it is really easy for me to use a vibrator at the same time. :-P

Alyssa--We've only had sex twice since I found out for a lot of the reasons you are talking about. I don't feel claustrophobic, but I feel super "dry" down there and it makes me feel not in the mood. I'm hoping things change in a few weeks.

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