That's it (mc mentioned)

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That's it (mc mentioned)
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:45pm

Hi Ladies,

I'm back, and with some bad news :(

As we were driving to the appointment I started getting bad cramping in my lower belly. As soon as we got to the check in desk I felt a huge gush of blood. They gave me some panty liners (thanks :P) and I went to the bathroom and basically sat there bleeding for a bit. I put a bunch of liners in my underwear, and we were taken to a room immediately. They asked me a few questions about my history, how the PG was going, etc., and then they took me directly to get an U/S.

They couldn't find anything - no sack of fluid that would usually hold the baby, and no sign of the baby. It was just all thick with blood. They said I'll bleed for a few days to up to 10 (I hope not!), and that we should wait 2 cycles before trying again (not that we're thinking about that right now). They were all really great about it, but I'm glad to be home. I'll probably take a day or so off, depending how I feel.

So, that's it. We're pretty devastated right now, but I'm feeling more calm about it than before.

Anyway, thanks for all your support and hugs. I really appreciate all of you.





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Registered: 12-17-2007
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:55pm
Alyssa - I'm so terribly sorry for you and your husband. I was so hopeful that everything would be ok. You're in my thoughts. Lots of hugs.

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:21pm
Oh Alyssa! You've been in my thoughts all day, and will remain there. I'm so sorry.
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:26pm

Alyssa - I am so sorry to see this.

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:33pm
Alyssa my heart goes out to you and your family for having this happen. I think you should take some time to be home and feel whatever you need to feel. I wouldn't rush back to work after such a loss. Take care of yourself!

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:46pm
Alyssa, when I read this my heart just sank for you.
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:54pm

(((Hugs))) I am so sorry for your loss.

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:56pm
I am so so sorry Alyssa. You are your husband are in my thoughts. (((((Hugs)))))


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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 4:12pm
Oh Alyssa, I'm so sorry to read this and so very sorry for your loss. It's such a difficult process that no one should have to go through, both mentally and physically, because it's a total high one moment (being PG) and then the rug is pulled out from under you with such awful news the next and no warning. Take comfort in the love around you from your family and friends (especially your DH) and know that while the pain never completely goes away, it definitely eases after some time for grieving. I still think about how many weeks I would be and what my belly would look like right now, etc. Please feel free to email me if you need someone to "talk to" about this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH right now. (((Big Hugs)))

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 4:16pm
Alyssa I am very sorry for your loss.

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 4:19pm

((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

Alyssa - I am so so sorry for you guys. I am crying as I am typing this, I can't believe it! that was not the news I expected from your appointment this afternoon....

We are here for you! Sending lots of love and prayers your way.


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