Vanishing twin update

Grace and Anna: I so agree with both of you. First off I never wanted twins and it was actually a running joke between my group of mom friends about how difficult it must be. I mean little things like doing a baby massage course- well you can't do that unless you have a babysitter do it with you, or sleep- if they don't fall into a routine you are pretty much guaranteed a very rough first year, and the list goes on. Of course twin parents make it work and I am sure they are also rewarded for their efforts but still- if we do have a third I know I would prefer it if it happened when the 2 others can walk and talk.

Plus like you say Grace who knows if I will actually want a third. I think right now sometimes it is just hard because DH is against it for pretty silly reasons (he thinks families with 3+ often seem chaotic , don't seem to be able to do fun things anymore,etc- and the best part is he comes from a family of 3 where that absolutely wasn't the case, but he says they don't count because one sibling is quite a bit older then the other 2). So I guess it would have been nice to just skip the conversations which will definitely come if I do decide I want a third.

However when it gets down to it I think I just liked the idea of twins and not at all the reality. Plus it would have been such a surprise to everyone since they don't run in our family and I wasn't on any sort of fertility treatments- but obviously once again not great reasons to actually have twins LOL.

Jenny: Thanks!