TTC Chat - September

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TTC Chat - September
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Thu, 08-30-2012 - 11:02pm

TTC Check In -

When did you start trying?

Are you temping?

Would you like to share a link to your chart?

Where are you at in your cycle?

When will you test?

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Alison – TTC #1 since January 2010



Alyssa – TTC #2 since August 2012

 
Christine – TTC #2 since July 2012


Heather – TTC #2 since April 2012



Jan – TTC #3 since August 2012


Kate – NTNP #3 since August 2012


Mandy – TTC #2 since July 2012




Suzie – TTC #2 since June 2012

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Wed, 09-19-2012 - 10:46pm

Amy, how.. happy but terrible. I know babies are a gift but at the same time you wonder why God allows somethings to happen. Are you and Rob taking any sort of break after this MC? My NP wants me to wait 3 months.. which I'm not to sure about.. I mean I want my body to recover but it was also such an early MC.... not sure what to do. 

Heather - Boo on being awake that early! 

Melissa - Hi, I am not sure we have met. I am Cassie :smileyhappy: Good luck and I hope you are the # 3 as these things seem to happen in threes. How funny with the cake! 

Mandy - oh how exciting!! YEAH! 

Allison - So sorry about your uncle. 

1) How are you planning to tell your DHs when you get your BFP?

I am not sure. Both times he was there.. and it was just like... two lines! Though the second time things didn't pan out. I would like to surprise him... but now I'm not sure if I am going to be gun shy... with what happened. 

2) When will you tell work you're PG?

I will tell my supervisor pretty early on... just because of my job and the duties and issues such as disease that I deal with. 

There is still the one gal at the PD who is expecting and two at the Vet clinic I work with. The vet that is expecting is due the day after I was. Happy for her... but at the same time it kinda stung when I found out. That and the other little receptionist who isn't even married or working FT that found out she is expecting.... yeah anywho. 

 

Hi Ladies. I know I pop in and out. I am at an Animal Control Conferance this week. Learning lots. However, I got a great phone call this morning. The bank for the apraisal back on the house we have been drooling over since January.... and we close on Monday!! Which is very exciting! So much going on and now I'll be prepping a house and moving. The next few months are going to be flat out crazy with all the activities, meetings, trainings and such I have going on. I guess in a way I think there was a reason my pregnancy didn't work out. Maybe God knew something I didn't. Still hurts a little... and waiting seems like November is so far away. I am in the middle of my first cycle post MC... If this cycle is normal.. and so is the next one maybe we will go with the thrid cycle and count Aug as a month. Which still puts me into the first part of Novemeber durring the BD time... I really dislike this as I am used to being in control... a planner. And this has totally thrown off my plans and my timing. 


 Cassie 

     

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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 2:48am
We're not preventing but we're not trying right now. Not sure when I will O without temping and then in November as I mentioned before we are thinking about going on BC. To see if that will help. So not thinking I will get pregnant until December. Leaving it in God's hands and not pushing myself to DTD if I really don't feel up to it. Don't think we'll have much of a chance this month with moving right around O time and my mom being in town. I am ok with that. I want a baby so bad but I am at peace with leaving it in God's hands and not worrying about trying.

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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 10:53am
My OB just asked me why on earth I wanted more kids and offered mirena because she had hers 14 months apart and that was hard enough, much less really having twins. :smileytongue: It's really what I figured she would say because she was my OB with the twins and when she found out it was twins she told me it had been a mistake to try for another so soon after my first (my oldest was 1 1/2 when we found out it was twins). Honestly I am listening to my body but I just can't stand the thought of preventing right now. I read online you can try right away after a chemical pregnancy but I bled so much I do think my body needs some time. So we're just going to not DTD so much and if it happens then awesome, i'll take it! If not then that is ok too. More time for my body to heal.

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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 5:40pm
Hi Cassie! Good to "see" you again!!! I am so sorry to hear about the MC :smileysad: it dies sound like you guys are going to be very busy over the next month or so! Congrats on the house! That is so exciting :smileyhappy:
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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 10:10pm
Oh yes! Definitely not using her next time. I barely saw her with the twins because I had an MFM or I would have switched after the first time I met her. But I loved my MFM and I was afraid if I switched OB's I'd have to switch MFMs. Looking at a birthing center with a midwife here in town for next time so long as it is not twins again.

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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 10:50pm
Oh no I am so sorry. Hope you can get everything resolved soon and get back to TTC asap! :smileysad:

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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 10:50pm
Sorry to hear that. Hope everything works out sooner than you think!
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Thu, 09-20-2012 - 10:55pm
So our two bottom tickers got BFPs. In order from bottom to top. By that pattern Kate is next! :smileywink:

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Fri, 09-21-2012 - 9:38am
Jan - I'm sorry to hear about your news. I hope things work themselves out quickly.
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Fri, 09-21-2012 - 9:42am
Trust me ladies... Kate is not next... between the bedroom issues I mentioned before, breastfeeding, erratic cycles and nearing the "golden age"... it will take a miracle.

BFN this morning... AF is/was due sometime between this past Wednesday and next Wednesday.
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