Let's get those September BFPs!
I"m sorry you're so frustrated and for good reason! I dont know much about charts so I cant help you there, but just wanted to send you some HUGS...vent away!
Hope your confusion and your cycle clear up soon!
Thanks Katie for my siggy!
Half to Whole
MARY - so sorry you're going through this. Looking at your chart I don't think you've O'd yet, but I wouldn't chalk it up to being anovulatory just yet... since you're a late O'er, you're only a few days past your "normal" O time, and that O date can fluctuate a lot. That being said, I know it is so frustrating to be where you're at and not know what is going on. ((HUG))
RUBY - sounds like an interesting visit you had (... "none of yo damn business lady!" - how many times have I wanted to say those words! LOL)
AFM -TMI, I had just the tracest amount of blood in some EWCM last night and it's exactly time to O, so I wonder if it was O spotting (I've never had that before). I was really really hoping to see my temp go up today (grrr). I really think it'll go up tomorrow (since I'm on CD19 and that's the latest I've O'd before, plus the EWCM, and the spotting...) but I don't know if I can get DH to GOFO again tonight since we had a pretty "full" weekend, and he'll probably have to work late today. I might just have to accept the GOFO that we've done this cycle and see what happens. Blah.
Again, I have to apologize for being out of touch. I think I burnt myself out talking and thinking about TTC non stop for the first three cycles - backing off a bit has kind of lessened the emotional rollercoaster...until now, at
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Ruby - Argh about your nosey neighbor! I never understand why people feel the need to ask those types of questions. That's kind of funny about your grandmother - My grandmother constantly talks about how she "might not be around" for events and such. It was sad to me at first - until my mom told me she's been talking like that for 20 years already! LOL She's in her mid-80s and is completely healthy.
Mary - I'm sorry your chart is so strange this cycle :( If it's any consolation, my cycle has been anywhere between 28 and almost 50 days (I had two in a row that were super long, and it was frustrating), so your O day can really vary a great deal. I hope it settles down for you soon.
AFM - thanks to everyone that replied to my questions about PG tests. I don't know --- I just don't *feel* PG, you know? After we GOFO'd I was super excited, but now I'm not as confident. Nothing has changed with me either as far as symptoms go. The only thing is that I'm urinating more, but that could be for a number of reasons. I think I'll probably just wait to test until the weekend. That way, if I'm not PG, my temps should tank by then.
Thanks to Katie, Tara, and Joelle for my wonderful siggies!
Ruby – Thanks for sending me some comfort!
First off Mary- BIG HUGS!
Second- You might not want to hear this but I still think you are going to O! I know CD21 seems very late for you, BUT many women O on CD 21 or later and still go on to get pregnant. I mean I O'd on CD 41 and got pregnant.
So I would give it another week
Long cycles are no fun especially when you have been on the other side!! I can understand being worried about whether you are Oing or not- what is your monitor saying? Have you had a high or peak reading yet?
I know that during my very long cycle I had two dark lines on the OPK and would think I was about to O but then I wouldn't and the second line never was darker which makes sense since I wasn't Oing but it was very frustrating at the time because each time I was so sure and I would even have a temp rise and then it would go right back down. Since we were on vacation when I O'd
Thanks for the added encouragement!