Change in Plans

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Change in Plans
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Tue, 05-31-2011 - 12:36pm

Yesterday DH and I went out to dinner and he tells me he sees us having another kid in the next 2 to 3 years.

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Tue, 05-31-2011 - 12:41pm
Ooh...that is a surprise! But maybe a positive one?? I would imagine that this was a better surprise than a "I don't want anymore" shocker.

I don't know about you and your hubby, but Cory and I throw around plans all the time. We know that none of them are set in stone until the time comes. We just love to talk and day dream about our future. Maybe your DH was just throwing out ideas.
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Tue, 05-31-2011 - 1:51pm

I totally hear you I don't want to be pg after 40. I would prefer not to be pg after 38/39 but we'll see. I think that is why I don't want to wait any longer than next summer to start trying again even though everytime David has a temper tantrum I think DH second guesses that idea of having anymore even though I know he really does want one more.

David Nicholas 12/5/09
Expecting a GIRL 3/23/13

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Tue, 05-31-2011 - 3:12pm
Congratulations! It seems like good news to me!

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Tue, 05-31-2011 - 8:30pm
A good shocked or a bad shocked?




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Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 05-31-2011 - 8:39pm
Not good or bad... just a shocker... I think he's on something.... I'm not ready to think about TTC again, but 2 or 3 years is still plenty far enough off to not think about it.
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Tue, 05-31-2011 - 8:44pm
"I think he's on something"

LOL! I'd feel the same way. You're right though, 2-3 years is still a long time to not worry about it!




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Registered: 09-08-2007
Mon, 06-13-2011 - 10:08am
LOL I'm not surprised Kate, since you said Damion had been jokenly wanting to try again already. I think a lot of men fall head over heels for fatherhood, and I could tell he caught the bug, LOL! Hopefully you guys can find a plan you both love and feel comfy with.
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