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|Wed, 12-02-2009 - 10:14pm|
So wegot our BFP this morning and when I told DH it wasn't quite the reaction I was hoping for. It sort of reminded me of the scene in Marley and Me where the Owen Wilson comes in and tells Jennifer Aniston that he wants to stop trying and she comes out and says I'm pregnant. His words were something to the effect of "Are you sure it's a line? Could I be a false positve?". But when he left for work this morning he seemed pretty excited about it.
But when he came home tonight he said that he read more about false postives and that the HCG increases( which I knew) andthat I should wait until Friday to test. And I told him that I was going to test tomorrow and Friday dice I have two tests left andthat I was waiting for my doctor to email me back about grttig a blood test and if I even needed to do that. He keeps saying "if you are pregnant we will..." and I keep saying that I am pregnant. Even if it's a hemcial pregnancy I still need to act like I am pregnant just in case.
I am pissed and hurt that he isn't being openly excited. I don't know if he is freaking out inside and just not showing it. And I don't want to have the conversation tonight so we will see what happens when I take the test tomorrow and temp tomorrow and it's still postive. I just always wanted to have a hubby that go super excited and hugged me when the time came and that's so not what happened. I know I shouldn't expect it with him because he isn't like that but oh well.
Thanks for listening.