QOTW: How Often do you and DH/SO DTD?

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QOTW: How Often do you and DH/SO DTD?
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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 4:12pm

Inspired by another thread, haha . . .obviously only answer questions that you are comfortable sharing about, and skip the rest!

How often do you and DH do the deed?

If it were solely up to DH, how often would you?

If it were solely up to you, how often would you?

Has this changed since you first got together?

Has it been different at different times in your relationship?

Do you usually/always/never have the big O from DTD?

Any tips for the difficult Oers out there?

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 6:36pm
How often do you and DH do the deed? About once or twice a week, pregnant or not. Although bed rest interferes naturally (was on it with Jensen and most likely will be again with the twins).

If it were solely up to DH, how often would you? He often tells me he wishes he could relive the weekend we made Jensen. 24 times in 3 days. Um yeah. No way could I do that anymore LOL!

If it were solely up to you, how often would you? It's always up to me LOL! I don't DTD if I don't want to and Rob never pushes. It's not a chore to make love to my husband, even if I hate the mess!

Has this changed since you first got together? Oh yeah! As I mentioned before we couldn't keep our hands off each other before we had Jensen, and now it's much less often. Not only are we getting older (ha I feel so much older then 22 and I am sure Rob will say the same for his 26 years) it just isn't the same when you know your baby is sleeping across the house lol.

Has it been different at different times in your relationship? Definitely. We never cut out sex when we are upset. I believe it's extremely unhealthy to use sex as a way to punish your spouse. Are we less inclined when mad? Sure. But I never let being irritated cause me to hold out on him. Although honestly I can't think of too many times where we've gone to bed mad anyway.

Do you usually/always/never have the big O from DTD? Actually it's pretty rare. Sex feels good, I enjoy it, but the big O is pretty elusive unless I am pregnant.

Any tips for the difficult Oers out there? Lots of foreplay and tell your spouse what you like!

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 7:08pm
justadrienne wrote:

Inspired by another thread, haha . . .obviously only answer questions that you are comfortable sharing about, and skip the rest!

How often do you and DH do the deed?

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 7:37pm

How often do you and DH do the deed?

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 7:53pm
justadrienne wrote:

Inspired by another thread, haha . . .obviously only answer questions that you are comfortable sharing about, and skip the rest!

How often do you and DH do the deed? Once a month or so. We do other stuff more often though.

If it were solely up to DH, how often would you? He's the reason we DTD so frequently. He's just not that into the actual act. Other things, though, he's nearly always up for.

If it were solely up to you, how often would you? I would like to at least every couple weeks. It's not unusual for me to ask why he doesn't find me attractive anymore because of it.

Has this changed since you first got together? We were both virgins when we got married. It's slowed down some, but not a whole lot. It's never been that often.

Has it been different at different times in your relationship? It was even less when I was pg.

Do you usually/always/never have the big O from DTD? I tend to have it before. I swear, I get off like a high school boy. DH can finish me off in just a couple minutes.

Any tips for the difficult Oers out there? I'm not real sure what the technique is. I've just always been like this.

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 9:30pm

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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 10:03pm


How often do you and DH do the deed? Well when we were together it was once a month twice in a good month other then when we were trying for Simon. Right now its months between since we are apart.

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Thu, 08-18-2011 - 1:07pm
justadrienne wrote:

Inspired by another thread, haha . . .obviously only answer questions that you are comfortable sharing about, and skip the rest!

How often do you and DH do the deed? It's hard to say, we're still getting into a rythm since having Teddy 6 months ago.

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Thu, 08-18-2011 - 1:54pm


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