My husband and I are arguing for weeks now about paternity leave. My husband wants to have 3 months off from work , his reasons is to help me with the baby. I am happy that he is willing to help me but we are in tight budget right now. I am trying to convince him just for 2 weeks paid vacation and he disagree. This is our first baby for 11 years of being married. But if he goes to paternity leave , we cannot pay all our bills and especially we are going to have baby. I dont knwo how expencive will be to have a baby. All the people that I know said that having a child is expencive and I dont know how expensive is expensive.