I have been trying to convince dh to have one and he just won't do it. Anytime I bring it up he doesn't want to talk about it. Well, today is the last straw. I went to the gyn for my annual check up and she said my left ovary is twice the size it should be. She we wants a pelvic ultrasound. Now I am 3 days late on my period and she said I should take a pregnancy test because if I were pregnant it could cause my ovary to be enlarged. Anyway, I left there and proceeded to go pick up a test while thinking what will I do if I am pregnant. We are happy with two children and that is all we can afford (at least the lifestyle we want for them). Anyway, to make a long story short, I am not pregnant- THANK GOD! Although, now I have to worry about why my ovary is large. My mother had ovarian cancer at the age of 42. I am 35 and a tad scared. Dh is out of town and I have the ultrasound Friday. I don't think I am going to mention it when I talk to him as there is no reason to ruin is week with his dad and our ds.
Anyway, what experience did your dh's have with a vasectomy? It really isn't that bad at all from what I have read. To top it off, it only cost $20 (co-pay).