I need help.... I have a 14 year old who has ran away twice. Has all ready had sex. and I have been hearing stories of her trying to get other guys to give her a try. I did not raise my daughters to be this way. I know she is looking for love in all the wrong places. She lies, she has threated to harm herself. She does not care about anything. she looks at me at times like she wished I would just drop dead. I know she is sneeking around smoking. I don't know for sure if she is drinking or doing drugs. I do know she was suspended for taking alcohol to school in a baby bottle. That's why she is in a Alternative School. I sent her to a Outward Bound Camp for 21 days She came back acting changed but it lasted for a month. until I gave her some freedom back. Then she lost her..... Well let's just say she's not my little girl anymore. And today I had to go get her from school. They say she had some pills on her. But they searched her and found none. She says she flushed them down the toilet but I wonder!!!! The other girl brought them in and gave them to her. and instead of telling someone. She got rid of them so that the girl or herself would not get into trouble. She also wants to stay in her room alot trying to sleep her life away. But I do't let her. Well I guess that's all.ANY ONE WITH ADVICE, OR EXPERIENCE IN THESE AREAS PLEASE HELP!!!