Hello. I thought I would introduce myself. My name is Erin, I am in my early 20's, have been with my husband for 5 years married for one year. I found out I was pregnant last month (not planned) and ended up having a miscarriage. We are not in the right place right now to have a child. We are both students and I work part time. We get financial assistance from our parents and are on my husbands student health insurance which sucks. Having a child right now is not something we are ready for. After the miscarriage though, I really want a baby. We have decided we are going to TTC after I am done with school and start working full time in 2 years. That seems like such a long wait right now. How do you make it through the long waits like this?