I am a 42 year old white male who just found out on Thursday that my wife of 18 years has been cheating on me. Over the course of the last year she has began playing the online game World of Warcraft. She played it for probably 2 hours every morning and 4 hours every night. When she started, I was working a very demanding job and did not have much time with her. Last November, I changed careers and went from working 75 hours per week to working 35 hours per week. I tried to get closer to her but just pushed me away. I figured it was a phase and went along with it.
On Thursday I was on Verizon's website looking for a new cell phone and I saw the option to view my bill and all phone activity. I had noticed my wife was calling the same number at 7:30 am every day(when I leave for the gym) and staying on the phone with him til 9am. She was talking to him again during her lunch break and again on her 1 hour commute home. This had been going on for over a year.